“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Viking25

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As some of you may know I was not able to score for a long time...no matter what I tried..it was no go at the end. I approach,go on dates...and typicaly get rejected after the first date. This one however was different.
Got the girl phone number,talked online a bit,while communicating with her she came off as a conseravative church girl who just got out of LTR few months ago. She would convey how she thought that ONS were disgusting and how guys are always thinking about sex..etc. Basicaly, I knew I am not getting any very soon.
Thanks to all you gents for ideas for the first date,I went on action date to play minigolf and drive go-cars. She was acting kinda shy,but I saw some signals like EC and KINO from her...I tried to return same signals back. I wasn't particulary good at it tho. The we went to get some food,which I kinda screwed up there,didn't really know where to go,so she sugested the place.
While at the food place...I start to initiate EC and a very deep convo with her,she seems facinated and looks into my eyes for like 10 sec...
At this point,it was getting to 9 pm and I knew whe had to be at work around 8 am next morning. What I would typicly do is to take her home and kiss close and of course thank her for the nice evening.
But thanks to this board I didn't do any of that. I kinda new that I am not getting any from this chick,( she was kinda conseravative,chirch chick) I deciced to do a little experiment. I invited her ove to my place to watch a movie. Surprisingly she was up for it. Got to my place...started to watch the movie...after 30 min I sugetsed we cuddle. She was up for it. Another 30 min later...I was giving her massage:)
Then I sugested we move on the bed for massage...it's easier there!:) Totaly forgot about the movie....massage turned into heave make out session. Then it was almost midnight and I sugested she spent the night ( so not typical of me!...my afc days are almost over!)
She hesitated for a bit,but then she agreed. It was pretty late,so I didn't push for sex,but it was nice to have her in my bed.
In the morning,when we woke up we only had few minutes before she had to go. I went for some kissing again..it turned into nipple licking and fingering...yeah! But she had to go...and she left.
In-fukking-credible! Church girl turned into slut or maybe it's just me being so suave?:D
I told her I will call after her work...but frankly I don't really know what to do next. I never went this far so soon.
We spend 15 hours straight together after the first meeting...I don't know if it's bad or what? Should I just call her for few minutes today and don't make any plans?
Common DJ's..you got me this far...what would be the next move if you were in my position?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Hollowpoint

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If you had them quick, does that mean they are sluts?
I don't think so. I tend to believe that the skills you/I have are the factor.
 

Viking25

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An update.
While I was thinking to much what to do next...she calls me this afternoon tojust chit chat. Then she she had to go do something and she will call me again in one hour!...Alright....she calls me again and we just talk about how our day went and stuff...and I said:" Let's go for a dinner tomorrow...yeah,let's make it a date" I mentioned a nice ( but not too fancy) restaurant in the4 area,so I'll pick her up tomorrow after work and we are going to have dinner.
I think I'll invite her to my place afterwards and try to f-close. Thinking about good excuse to get her to my place now.
 

Mercenary

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my opinion:

You should make yourself less available.
much less "chitchat" over the phone. you should only be using the phone to set up your next face to face meeting. You can talk about "how her day was" then. next time she says "i'll call you back in an hour"... don't be home or at least don't answer.

next date... don't initiate kissing, sex, or anything. you've got to make her want it.
you need to be pretty detached from the situation. women aren't stupid. she knows that the last date you two almost had sex.... and she knows that you're waiting to go all the way so you can tell you buddies about it (it's true, here you are). So she is EXPECTING you to try to make "moves" on her. Don't. Be attractive, wear a nice outfit, some cologne, and be manly. Go on another action date b4 dinner.

If you play your cards right, she'll be the one suggesting that you go to HER place.
 
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