“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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a challenge, finaly something to get me off my ass

improvingdonjuan

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hi djs, I'm a lazy guy, im ****y im arrogant, funny, smart and on and on and on. But like all of you I'm not so skillful at dealing with women (im 18 so i still got plenty of time) Anyway
i have been around on and off for 3 years taking it slow and getting numbers but being to lazy to follow through. now that i work, im more confident, im starting to actually have the drive to become a dj and date multiple women. I was going to do it at my own time but i just got a challenge that will force me to get off my ass and go out to look for chicks

there is a lady that lives close to my house and she wants me to go to party of Quince Años see the catch is since she (like many other people have told me) thinks I'm cute she wants me to find a cute girl to go with because i'll be the (Chambelán)

I am good looking i naturally have a nice body (i look like i work out even if all i do is eat chocolate cacke) im short though 5'5 or 5'4 but doesnt bother me cause what i cant change why worry about it.

this thing is going down on july 10th and its may 8th right now so I've got a little less than 2 months to hook up with as many girls as possible and try to take the prettiest one to the party.

so i will be posting all of my approaches with as much detail as i can, you can help me out along the way. and it will be a learning experience for me ans well as for many of you guys because this will be 2 months of field testing. ill go to malls,libraries, gyms, swapmeets and my school. i will also go to places you guys suggest.


i will keep you updated and i welcome suggestions and tips
this will be fun.
ready to start????????????????????
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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all the places you mentioned are good except the mall, it's not the best place to meet. what are you gonna do? compliment on a girls handbag? they're there to shop bro, you can't just stop them! lol. unless she's a wh0re. it's a very bad place to try pick up. but as for everything else, good luck. have fun, cause i know i did! at your age, i was the same. but i think i just got lazy. but i get enough attention to satisfy me... i let them chase me, heh heh.
 

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Before I start i want to stablish my own rating system to describe the girls i approach and will be dating with this challenge
because i think the current dj rating system is faulty.
give the case that there are no 10's in real life nor 1's and everything from 2 to 5 we don't even notice due to the fact that they are ugly chicks and 6's 7's and 8's are the attractive girls and people here call them all HB9 HB10. anyway here is IDJ's ratings system in the looks department
0= average
1=above average
2= cute
3=attractive
4=very pretty
5= beutiful
6=breath taking
 

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update, today i decided to go to the library and work on my game. i scanned the scene and all i saw was 12,13,14,15 year old girls. so i proceeded to brush up on my Russian then i saw a girl*0 sitting on a computer so i proceeded to walk towards her (no eye contact prior to approach because she was buisy looking things up in the computer) this is how it went
me " excuse me, do we have to sing in to use the computer?"
her "no you just take it"
me " cool"
me"are you working on a school project?"
her "yeah"
me"what grade are you in"
her "(witha tone of superiority) I am in college"
(by the way she never made eye contanct with me)
i looked up the section for russian books and left
note to self : girl*0 had no interest in getting to know me

then as i got a russian for beginners book i scanned the scene again and saw 2 girls that appeared to be my age or older
a *1 and *3 so i sat in front of girl*3
me "hi, mind if i sit here" (as I sat)
her(looked at me with a confused look)
me(already though of a smart ass thing to say but was still judging her body language)]
her: " i dont understand"
me (switch to spanish) " hi"
her(in spanish) do you speak spanish?"
(by this i knew she was from mexico and didnt have that much time in the US or else you would not be surprise when a Mexican speaks spanish LOL)
me;yeah, and I'm trying to learn Russian"
her: thats a hard language
me:not really,
her: ive heard it but it seems hard
me : oh yeah where
her: in Hidalgo thats where im from
(she was friendly and i instantly knew that if i had 10 minutes with this girl i would have gotten her number , because by her body language i knew there was some interest level i just had to build it up)
but here comes the c0ck blocker.Her mom (i think) comes in the picture looks at me and gives her a look and starts talking about her homework and sends her to start researching.

then i saw a girl *4 but with her mom so i did not approach.
i waited but nothing but 15 and younger girls were there so i left.

off i went to the indoor swapmeet i saw a girl*0 i had seen before (she works there and i had bought something from that store before, she was checking me out then but i was in a hurry)
me: hi
her: hola (spanish for hi)
(we talked in spanish)
her: how are you?
me: fine and you?
her: good
me:do you work here every day?
her:yeah (walking away to through the trash out)
me: are you running from me or something?
(by the way when i flirt i usually do it in English with white girls so i noticed that in spanish im not as C+F as in english)
her:nope, i got to throw this away
her: my boss will be mad if keep talking
me:give me your number and we'll talk later
her: no, my boss is watching come back later and i'll give it to you
me: ( i didnt like her answer, low interest level due to my nervousness and inability to flirt like i do when girls come to MY confort zone) ( i thought of the response but it came to me in english hesitated because i had to translate into spanish an i say
"if you are lucky i will"
she laughs and says yeah right

i go off feeling proud of my self because i'm good at judging body language and even though i wasnt able to get the 10 regections i was looking for i am happy that i had the balls to go on the hunt.
 
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