a small story.

pretty sure we all know this, but i just wanted to make sure. it has been a true fact that many girls that see you with a girl/s find you more attractive and wonder what you're all about for that girl to be hanging out with you and having a good laugh.

today, at the bus station, there was many girls near me and my pal, who is 16. i saw this girl i know sitting the opposite side of the bus station from where i was. i know her through her brother, and i also see her at the place i study at. she is 16 too. i had my back faced towards her. i was looking around and i saw her walking towards the stop i was at. there was even a bus coming at hers and she came to the one i was at instead. i pretend i didn't see her. she flicked my head and i looked back and laughed and acknowledged her presence. she sat behind me, talked for a couple seconds. told her i saw her brother, blah blah. few minutes later after a few other girls had come to wait for the bus, i turned around and touched her hair, pulled a few strands softly. i said: "hmm, nice hair... so soft!" with a smirk. "do you use herbal essences?" at that moment, almost everyone else was watching me as if i was a stranger to the girl, so they probably would of thought, "wtf?" but she responded well since she knows who i am.

i am that kinda guy with both guys and girls, i like to joke alot and be sarcastic. girls love it. she's put all her focus onto me, rather than my pal who is fresh lookin and 16 years old. so it's not always about looks after all (not saying i am ugly though, hehe), it was my charm and sarcasm jokes that make me more interesting to her. and at the same time, her and myself fooling around attract other girls to me. girls are just like that, always trying to compete, looking at the girl thinking: "hmmpf! what is so interesting about HER?" so they tend to get jealous.

even when we all got on the bus, we sat at the back, all the other gals did too. and i was probably the only one talking, about ten people were in the bus, they were just listening to my jokes and me talking to that girl. i was entertaining everyone

i have a feeling i'll be seeing alot more of her after today, heh.

as she was getting up to leave the bus, she flicked my head and i jokingly said: "ooo, that's it. i'm going to complain to the bus driver about you." she replied with a "what?" smiled and left. she couldn't of stopped and talk, she had to get off. i am not interested in her anyway, only as a friend. she is too young for me. i just like to mess around with girls like her. i have to admit it's fun. notice, the whole time she never talked to my friend. it was all about the attitude i showed her. i was being myself. many girls... and i mean MANY, seem to judge me by the way i look. i really come off as a player, probably by the way i dress and the way i joke non stop, even in public when people can hear. but once girls get to know me, they fall in love. however, me looking this way attracts female players, but i am not totally down with them at the moment. infact, not even dating. i'm just a little lazy at the moment to be chasing girls around. for now, single is fun, teasing, fooling around. it's great. not to sound so up myself, but i wanna thank god for the way i am. i may have a gut and be a little unfit (i am not fat at all, i just have a gut, that's all). i consider myself just above average. denzel washington sort of look i got goin' on. i sometimes know how girls feel when they walk down a path with a bunch of guys staring at her. they get very use to it. i get many looks everywhere, i won't lie to you, i love it! i feel attractive. and i bet they know it too when we stare at them.

i am very confident and i like that fact. i wasn't always this way. i was, but i never really showed it. i was hiding all my life until not so long ago i started to open up... about maybe two years ago, i made a change (only YOU can help yourself if you're unhappy). and i love the change. i am much more confident, VERY open, i don't care what others think, i love who i am, i'm funny, i have qualities enough to make myself happy and hopefully someone else one day

sorry for long post, just wanted to get it off my chest. just something to entertain you maybe. thanks for reading.

So what happened with the other girls on the bus after she left? Did you get any more EC than usual?

I find this happening to me too in public transport. I joke around a lot with guys and girls, and when I look at the faces around me people are smirking and smiling to themselves.

Once this kid broke out into laughter when sitting near my friend and I on the train. It was pretty funny.

I like listening to people's convos as well, but mostly they are incredibly boring. Couple of days ago I overheard a boring AFC talking to a new girl on the bus (they shook hands, but it was obvious they recognised each other from class). He was mega AFC and there were heaps of silences. I wanted to call time out and give him some advice The chick was hot and she was being wasted on an AFC!

yeah, the guys surrounded by the HBs always gets other HBs' attention. seriously, i have got to stop talking about myself.

Originally posted by duke007
So what happened with the other girls on the bus after she left? Did you get any more EC than usual?

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nothing happened. they were just being quiet, there was too many people on the bus... i doubt they'd have the tits to come sit by me and start talking lol. not infront of all those people in the bus anyway. but they were all looking when i was talking to her when we were waiting for the bus. i don't even really like her. just talk to her for fun. she's too young for me. i like real women.

True. One of the most important things a DJ learns is that women PREFER men who are with other women. Most would rather 'share the King than own the Knave', because women are naturally competitive with each other.