If some sadist tv producer approaches you and gives you 2 options, 1 receiving a couple million dollars while having a camera man record your every move for the rest of your life while he tries his best to make your life extremely depressing or 2 receive a couple thousand while the camera sticks around for only 2 months. Which option would you choose?

The above situation is the predicament that many sosuave readers are face with. They can try their best to make a woman have the best time of her life to the point of them getting depressed with not getting the job done right or they can be calm, confidence, fun while they're around women that have heavy emotional baggage.

The lack of good results makes an aspiring Dj lose confidence and so he retreats to a seduction message board to try and learn more guidlines and study more reasons why those guidlines should work. That sosuave.com reader could have a series of bad luck which doesn't have anything to do with following the guidlines but since he doesn't aim to make himself happy he continues to depress himself with trying to make others happy...it's a bad habit...

Fun people seek fun without relying on other people to validate that they are fun to be with..fun people don't lose their flow because of not hearing a loud laugh or receiving compliments in return...fun people are like wine, the unwitty will realize their intrinsic funness over time.....

So...When you see a beautiful woman near you, don't stress, have fun...