George Gordon
Banned
“Focus on YOURSELF!” I think what we really mean is focus on YOUR WORLD. And even though skill is important and helps us create that world, what is really essential is: UNDERSTANDING what is really happening in Nature (women, this site), and developing a strong FAITH in the beliefs about our own worlds and ourselves, in union with Her Laws.
Let us talk about something very personal, and something that ultimately directs the flow and success of your own life; and that is: THE WAY YOU RELATE TO YOURSELF.
You can learn all the techniques in the book and still be very successful at scoring women, but until you become accountable to and honest with yourself—be AUTHENTIC, you will likely not experience an intimate connection with her because the woman can only reflect an illusion along with a small part of you back.
“So how do I connect with a woman?”
To get to that place, you need to do two things:
1) You MUST get underneath her ‘Princess Persona’
2) You MUST allow her to get underneath your ‘Macho Ego’
Because it is in Woman’s nature to reflect, BOTH are completely up to you! And you can’t open the floodgates of communication and connection if either of these doors remain closed.
“How do I open these doors?”
Door 1: DOMINATE YOURSELF!
How you relate to yourself is YOUR world. Learn to communicate effectively what kind of WORLD you live in.
Haven’t you ever noticed that people tend to communicate with others in the exact same way that they communicate with themselves? If thinking is simply you having a conversation with yourself, aren’t you going to take those same habits and directions into conversation with someone else, along with accepted and unaccepted behavior?
Thus, in order to relate with women (and everyone else) effectively, you must FIRST relate with YOURSELF effectively. Plant PRINCIPLES and grow INTEGRITY. Then you naturally expect the same from a woman as you would of yourself!
Because your thoughts and attitudes are ‘ENERGY’, and that energy is always emanating from you, people can sense your energy fairly easily. And if you’re like me, you like to have and concentrate on the positive energy in your world, and when something enters your experience that is not positive, something you will not tolerate, don’t you talk to it firmly and tell it to change and it can stay, or else it can get the hell away? After all, it’s your world and you say what goes.
So, when you become CONGRUENT with this positive attitude and the power you have over yourself, you will begin to project it onto women naturally (and everyone you deal with). What you’ll discover is that something very profound happens when you actually verbalize sternly, calmly, and confidently what you do not tolerate from others.
When you dominate yourself, your influence over others is remarkable, and even though you give them the choice not to because you’re indifferent, they usually CHOOSE to follow. You begin to feel them ‘leaning’ on you (which can be a great responsibility). Women can sense your inner strength, that stability within you that is unmoved by outside events.
After some time of ‘communicating your terms’ to a woman, she’s ready—and eager—to get to know you at a deeper, personal level. Which brings us to…
Door 2: ACCEPT YOURSELF!
Your ego is the sea between you and yourself. You must HUMBLE yourself and admit your weaknesses and imperfections. This is true COURAGE: to throw aside your worries and anxieties about what others may think about your weaknesses and your challenges is to be completely TRUE to yourself.
For until you accept yourself, neither can a woman; because when you accept yourself, you are giving the woman PERMISSION to accept you as well! Even though you’ve welcomed her into your WORLD by dominating it, you are now welcoming her into your ‘SOUL’—the person you ARE by being secure in your SELF. This is AUTHENTICITY.
Yet remember that you are RESPONSIBLE for yourself and your life; so make no excuses, but rather accept where and who you are now, and focus on where you’re going and who you’re becoming. Accept that you’re on a path and you are continually CHANGING. Allow the ‘nutrients’ from the past to be absorbed, and then LET it seep out!
Your ‘agenda’ is to walk your PATH, follow your CALL, and allow your VISION to be ignited.
Finally, when you accept yourself, others also feel comfortable and completely accepted by you! because you have opened a gateway of communication where expression isn’t hindered by judgment and prejudice. And with women, as you expose yourself fully and wholly (void of any hang-ups), they are free to mirror their wholeness back to you…
THE FLOODGATES HAVE BEEN OPENED!
!GEORGE GORDON!
Let us talk about something very personal, and something that ultimately directs the flow and success of your own life; and that is: THE WAY YOU RELATE TO YOURSELF.
You can learn all the techniques in the book and still be very successful at scoring women, but until you become accountable to and honest with yourself—be AUTHENTIC, you will likely not experience an intimate connection with her because the woman can only reflect an illusion along with a small part of you back.
“So how do I connect with a woman?”
To get to that place, you need to do two things:
1) You MUST get underneath her ‘Princess Persona’
2) You MUST allow her to get underneath your ‘Macho Ego’
Because it is in Woman’s nature to reflect, BOTH are completely up to you! And you can’t open the floodgates of communication and connection if either of these doors remain closed.
“How do I open these doors?”
Door 1: DOMINATE YOURSELF!
How you relate to yourself is YOUR world. Learn to communicate effectively what kind of WORLD you live in.
Haven’t you ever noticed that people tend to communicate with others in the exact same way that they communicate with themselves? If thinking is simply you having a conversation with yourself, aren’t you going to take those same habits and directions into conversation with someone else, along with accepted and unaccepted behavior?
Thus, in order to relate with women (and everyone else) effectively, you must FIRST relate with YOURSELF effectively. Plant PRINCIPLES and grow INTEGRITY. Then you naturally expect the same from a woman as you would of yourself!
Because your thoughts and attitudes are ‘ENERGY’, and that energy is always emanating from you, people can sense your energy fairly easily. And if you’re like me, you like to have and concentrate on the positive energy in your world, and when something enters your experience that is not positive, something you will not tolerate, don’t you talk to it firmly and tell it to change and it can stay, or else it can get the hell away? After all, it’s your world and you say what goes.
So, when you become CONGRUENT with this positive attitude and the power you have over yourself, you will begin to project it onto women naturally (and everyone you deal with). What you’ll discover is that something very profound happens when you actually verbalize sternly, calmly, and confidently what you do not tolerate from others.
When you dominate yourself, your influence over others is remarkable, and even though you give them the choice not to because you’re indifferent, they usually CHOOSE to follow. You begin to feel them ‘leaning’ on you (which can be a great responsibility). Women can sense your inner strength, that stability within you that is unmoved by outside events.
After some time of ‘communicating your terms’ to a woman, she’s ready—and eager—to get to know you at a deeper, personal level. Which brings us to…
Door 2: ACCEPT YOURSELF!
Your ego is the sea between you and yourself. You must HUMBLE yourself and admit your weaknesses and imperfections. This is true COURAGE: to throw aside your worries and anxieties about what others may think about your weaknesses and your challenges is to be completely TRUE to yourself.
For until you accept yourself, neither can a woman; because when you accept yourself, you are giving the woman PERMISSION to accept you as well! Even though you’ve welcomed her into your WORLD by dominating it, you are now welcoming her into your ‘SOUL’—the person you ARE by being secure in your SELF. This is AUTHENTICITY.
Yet remember that you are RESPONSIBLE for yourself and your life; so make no excuses, but rather accept where and who you are now, and focus on where you’re going and who you’re becoming. Accept that you’re on a path and you are continually CHANGING. Allow the ‘nutrients’ from the past to be absorbed, and then LET it seep out!
Your ‘agenda’ is to walk your PATH, follow your CALL, and allow your VISION to be ignited.
Finally, when you accept yourself, others also feel comfortable and completely accepted by you! because you have opened a gateway of communication where expression isn’t hindered by judgment and prejudice. And with women, as you expose yourself fully and wholly (void of any hang-ups), they are free to mirror their wholeness back to you…
THE FLOODGATES HAVE BEEN OPENED!
!GEORGE GORDON!
