Dunno if anyone remembers my story, so I'll give a quick recap.

Started talking to a girl in my Uni class. 2 weeks ago from today we went out to work on an assignment. We ended up just having a few drinks and good convo. No mention of a boyfriend... She ended up paying for my drinks so I thought things went well. She ends up dropping the class the next day (NOT because of me).

Anyway, called her a week ago today and nicely told (ie. didn't ask) that we're going out for drinks and that she's buying. She laughed, but said it was too late since she got off work at 11. I knew it was bull**** because we did the same thing the week before, only this time it was clear it was going to be a date. She said she would call me back sometime. Yeah right.

SO, how the f*** do I stop thinking about her? It's a mofo week later and she's still in my damn mind. Only one other girl had this effect on me and I'm still with her after 6 years (yeah, I'm a cheat, so sue me). Besides drinking, do you guys have any tips for getting a girl off your mind?

wow! a oneitus after 2 weeks of knowing a girl? and one date?

How is this possible?

Hang out with your girlfriend MORE, and you wont think of her as much

I'm not sure how it's possible. This has NEVER happened to me before. I can't hang around my gf because I hate her.

Other girls I messed around with last summer were no problem, but this girl actually captivates/captivated me.

one way to cure onitis is more girls. seriously, talk to more girls and get more numbers & dates, you'll soon forget about the current one.

Originally posted by HuuBinh
one way to cure onitis is more girls. seriously, talk to more girls and get more numbers & dates, you'll soon forget about the current one.

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Yeah. Right now I have 2 girls who are nuts about me, huggin and flirting with me. 3 numbers from other girls, who'd be ready to go out if I called them with sufficient notice and 2 fukk buddies.

Guess what? I can't possibly think about one of them enough to develop one-itis. It's just impossible, even if I'd try to. Even if I am thinking about the date with a fukk buddy, some other girl will appear and I won't get one-itis.

Cheers. Work on getting more girls.