I think this might be an interesting DJ project for me.

Last year, there was an HB 7 that I liked, but I never got anywhere because I was too AFC. She later went out of town for about half a year.

Now I know how to handle women much better due to the DJ stuff, and she has come back.

First thing I notice when she came back was that she gained weight, when from being an HB7 to maybe an HB6 or HB5.5. In my mind, I thought, "I could do better".

Still, I was curious as to whether the basic techniques would work on her, so I ignored her, did some subtle status displays, didn't play the role of the puppy dog, but did ask for her number. She gave it.

I went ahead and followed through with a basic phone call, not because I was particularly interested in her but because I just wanted to see the current situation. Turns out she's hooked up some internet boyfriend who's your standard AFC dork. Actually not all AFCs are dorks, so he's down a notch. Probably the best she can do having slipped on the HB scale.


So, here's the project: what steps would I take to get her attention off her dork boyfriend and infatuated with me to the point of seduction? I don't really have an interest in her anymore, but as a challenge, it's good practice. Would neg-hitting be an effective start, since I was spurned once before?

Call me cruel, but turnabout is fair play, and I think I'd enjoy it. This woman is pretty flakey, but is very intelligent, nonetheless. BTW, it's not the same woman I spoke about earlier, the smart HB8.5 worthy of an LTR.

I am going to be harsh. This is tough love from me

First thing I notice when she came back was that she gained weight, when from being an HB7 to maybe an HB6 or HB5.5. In my mind, I thought, "I could do better".

I don't get it. Why would you bother with a 5.5?

I went ahead and followed through with a basic phone call, not because I was particularly interested in her but because I just wanted to see the current situation. Turns out she's hooked up some internet boyfriend who's your standard AFC dork. Actually not all AFCs are dorks, so he's down a notch. Probably the best she can do having slipped on the HB scale.

AHHH, I believe it is a case of wanting what you can't have. You need to snap out of it! A HB7 is not really worth chasing at best, but when she slipped to a 5.5!

Seriously I would apply time and effort to learn how to chase WORTHY chicks, not wasting on some futile experiment.

what steps would I take to get her attention off her dork boyfriend and infatuated with me to the point of seduction? I don't really have an interest in her anymore, but as a challenge, it's good practice. Would neg-hitting be an effective start, since I was spurned once before?

You need to GFTOW (Go F&*k Ten Other Women) to get over your one-itis. Make a point to TELL HER about your conquests. Then apply what you learn in GETTING and SEDUCING those ten aforementioned women in seducing this one.

I doubt you will want this 5.5 after you have gone through GFTOW program.

Expend your energy on pursuits that will benefit you - don't waste time on a chick that has b/f - guess why she has one - you guess it - now leave her alone and pursue worthwhile subjects!

You seem to misunderstand. It's not about interest; it's about revenge. After I seduce her, I'll let her down hard. And don't plan on dealing with her alone, I'll pursue real women while this is going on.

It's not revenge you want it is to prove to yourself that your game has improved and you want to impress her with your rap and then she'll change her opinion of you and put you in a favorable light, at least in her head. Yeah, I see - go for it - if you fail then come back to us and tell us how you dropped the ball on b5,5. I do have faith that you will use what you hace learned.

ok. there might be some of that. I do realize however, that emotionally, I don't even like her. This isn't even a good person I'm dealing with. It makes me wonder if I was just that bad off when I was a full AFC.

I plan to ignore her at an outing I'm going to tonight just as an experiment to see the Tao of Steve rule at work. If the principle holds true, she'll be confused and start chasing me. I have no intent on chasing her, since that's the bull**** that created the problem in the firstplace.


MJr.

It's not about interest; it's about revenge

On comeon, that's just f&*ked up. When you have skills like these, always subscribe to the principle of LEAVING THEM BETTER THAN YOU FIND THEM.

How would you like it if some chick lead you on INTENTIONALLY. You would be back here posting a massive b!tch post about how she played you and how you are sworn off chicks. Think about how you would feel.

It is YOU that failed to attract her. It is YOU that was an AFC. It is NOT her that lead you on. She has done NOTHING to you.

Do something better with you time. From your post, it seems you have a LOT to learn in seducing women. Learn how to seduce HOT women, you will feel better about yourself.

This is worst than being an AFC and having one-itis.

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The point of revenge is to not to make someone feel good, unassign. It's to pay someone back for doing you wrong 7 times over.

I have the ability to do that now and your statement only motivates me to take that path more. If she ends up in therapy for the next 3 years, good.

who hasn't felt this way?

Big Mac - think for a second and put your emotions and irrational thinking aside and read your thread again. Why would she have been attracted to a self-described AFC - as you claim who you were at the time. So in essence, you got the treatment that you deserved at the time because women don't like afc's and since you were a afc, then logically she wouldn't like somebody like you! Makes sense?

So don't blame her for being a woman, you should blame yourself for being less than a man.

Now that she got fat , you want to kick a dog while it's down - this doesn't prove your manliness, it just proves you are still at the afc stage with this mentality - men don't play emotional games, leave the emotional game-playing for the women!

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Big Mac - think for a second and put your emotions and irrational thinking aside and read your thread again. Why would she have been attracted to a self-described AFC - as you claim who you were at the time. So in essence, you got the treatment that you deserved at the time because women don't like afc's and since you were a afc, then logically she wouldn't like somebody like you! Makes sense?

So don't blame her for being a woman, you should blame yourself for being less than a man.

Now that she got fat , you want to kick a dog while it's down - this doesn't prove your manliness, it just proves you are still at the afc stage with this mentality - men don't play emotional games, leave the emotional game-playing for the women!

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I agree with PR_L. You have a messed-up head. Revenge is not what a MAN or DJ does. You are taking your frustration on something that should be your own FAULT.

Sh*t happens and that's the way the world turns. Why do you need to lose your pride and your sense of dignity by pulling some stupid stunts. You need to grow up boy.

I might not do it just because I just saw her tonight and she really is pathetic. I can spend my thinking on quality babes.

But how is that winning? All you're saying is to let people kick me around. I don't consider that manly.

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Not cool

Thats not cool, life's too short for that type of bull****. Being suave doesn't mean treating people like ****.