Earlier, I posted in the thread "AFC Bind" http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=44453 about being worried about calling too soon. I followed the DJ rules and didn't contact the chick until today. I visited her place for about 20 minutes and ended the visit myself. (not overstaying your welcome) Later she called me, came to my place and was kissing me and had bought some gift and was essentially going crazy over me. I hadn't even planned to kiss her until the first official date which is planned later this week. There wasn't time to go further, but that will probably happen pretty soon.

I've never had this happen. I wondered why I wasn't as successful with women before, because I'm an HM8 (IMHO), and have good credentials. I just needed to know the right moves. There's been some posts against the DJ rules, but they're working for me, when the stuff society says didn't.

Thanks sosuave!

Great job, but my point was that you would have gotten that kiss if you called her earlier. Whether you called on Thursday, or Saturday...she still wanted to kiss you. Keep restaining yourself all you want if it's working but I'm tellin' you, you're going to have more fun doing what you want, when you want, and getting more puss all at the same time.

Blitz,

I like the way you look at things. Its interesting.

I've been wondering lately whether my success with women comes as a result of my use of the DJ mindset/techniques OR if its independent of that. Most of the DJ techniques are natural to me anyway so its hard to distinguish what is or isnt 'working'.

What are the general ideas that you follow in relation to being a 'DJ'??

Also, what DONT you believe in?? (obviously one being the 5 day wait before calling).

Thanks dude,
DJ83

I'm testing something new myself... I've always been a DJ and a player naturally and never cared. This has been some of my problem, no girls have ever caused me to get any feelings/emotions or simular. I now wanted to try and see how deep I could hook a girl and for this I chose the HB8.5 that invited me to her place for wine etc.

We have been texting and phoning every day now (last night she called me cause both was out partying and asked me when I got home. I said in 15 minutes and she left the party to go home and phonesex me... haha). Well she did. I've been trying to be really nice and emotional towards her. Telling her how nice, pretty she is, how much I want her. I even told her that when I saw her those 3 secs before we went on a date that I wanted her there and then when I saw those beautiful eyes. Everytime she asks me "is it reallly truuue" and I ofcourse say "yes" and she'll be all "oh you make me so happy/horny" etc. Eventhough I couldn't care less.

Stuff like that. I'm not quite sure if it's this yet or the fact that when I visited her and we ended in bed I made her hornier and gave her the best orgasms of her life (She came over 20 times... I'm not even kidding)... Or if it is cause I'm emotionally stimulating her at the same time. But now she is totally lost. Emotionally and sexually she is completely hooked. This is actually quite fun.

Now I'm actually wondering if this is actually something I want to experiment further with. Another thing with this is that it catches girls of guard... Most girls when they see me think dirtbag and player etc and just use me for sex, but then I suddenly turn the card on them and stimulate them on other levels. I've done this with several girls before just not in such a big scale as this.

It's kind of interesting.

See, this is what I sort of meant in another post that I made. If a girl is already into you, don't do all this rule crap, because you'll be shooting yourself in the foot. You can almost do no wrong as long as you don't start doubting yourself and making it seem like it's too good to be true.

I was doing well with this girl, but what happened was that I didn't really trust her to keep her word since she sort of flaked on me before (not really flake, but just had to forego plans), but we finally went out. Then, when I asked her out again and she agreed, I was still sort of skeptical (total "boy who cried wolf" thing) so I sort of pressed her to confirm that the plans were still on.

Result: I call her and find she left town on the day we were supposed to go out, and she didn't have my number (I'll give her the benefit of the doubt since it's holiday time), but again, it's one of those things where you ask whether it was because your distrust of her that sort of made her split, was it a legitimate reason she had, or was she just disinterested from the start? Only she knows.

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
I've been trying to be really nice and emotional towards her. Telling her how nice, pretty she is, how much I want her.

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Is that what you call being "emotional" towards a girl?

Yeah, might need to work on those EMOTIONS.

Originally posted by Eileen
Is that what you call being "emotional" towards a girl?

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no But I understand it might have come of that way

Originally posted by DonJohn83
Blitz,

I like the way you look at things. Its interesting.

I've been wondering lately whether my success with women comes as a result of my use of the DJ mindset/techniques OR if its independent of that. Most of the DJ techniques are natural to me anyway so its hard to distinguish what is or isnt 'working'.

What are the general ideas that you follow in relation to being a 'DJ'??

Also, what DONT you believe in?? (obviously one being the 5 day wait before calling).

Thanks dude,
DJ83

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Bump!

I know I'm outvoted, but today she was saying stuff like, "I like you so much. You're such a challenge to me. You're like a mystery, and you have boundaries. You're willing to say no to me. I like that. "

Her interest level is at a 9 or 10, because she did some things...

It was like I was living pages from the DJ textbook.

Even if every DJ rule isn't useful, I must be doing something right.