A few of you might have read my other post about how I get bored with girls and have cheated on all my gf's and how I don't even want a gf because I just want to fool around with several girls, no strings attached.

Well, I have been thinking about it for the last few days, and maybe its just the fact that its so easy for me to get any girl I want, that turns me off, and makes me look elsewhere. I mean, when a girl is really easy to get, it turns you off, doesn't it? Maybe since I rarely have to try hard to get a girl I want, that's why I am the way I am and never stay with one girl.

Well, there's this girl, about a 8.5, and an awesome personality. The thing about her, is that ever since I met her (at the beginning of the 2002 school year....freshmen year) she has only had one bf, and she dumped him in like a week. She doesn't go around making out with guys either (I know this for sure, because, well, ya'll know how gossip works in HS). And she has turned down so many guys. Just a few weeks ago, she turned down a really popular senior, and also a good friend of mine, who also can get just about every girl she wants.

Well, I think that just how girls who are easy to get are a turn off, hard to get girls turn us on. I mean, isn't the part where you are trying to get the girl most of the fun? I feel that I'm starting to get really attracted to her, i mean, her looks, personality, and she's hard to get. I look at her as a challenge.

And this is how this connects to my old post. Maybe this is what I have been waiting for, a good challenge to come along before I just settle for one girl. And the fact that she has turned down so many guys, makes it even more exciting, trying to get what most guys couldn't get.

Well, since this girl is so hard to get, I'd appreciate some feedback. I will trust in who I am to get her, and my DJ skills. But anything else you guys might want to add? Like, why would girls like these be so hard to get? Or is there anything you should do different to get these girls? Because I know that unlike most girls I've had before, she won't be all over me in just a day, I'll really have to work for this one.

It's like why at sosuave, they tell you to be a challenge. Now you know how the HB9 with AFCs constantly on her like flies on dung feels when a real challenging man comes along.

I dont think there is anything you should do differently to get this girl than you do with the other girls. What I think is, there are alot of AFC's at your school and your girl you are goin for can smell them a mile away, so she turns em down. It looks like you aren't an AFC since you have had no trouble gettin girls, so I wouldn't be worried with her. I have noticed that the neg-hits work really well with those hard to get girls.

But heres the thing you got to come down to. I have the same problem as you bro. Its really easy for me to get girls, but then when some other girl comes along, and you know its going to be a challenge, it makes you want her even more. Theres this girl I have been DJing since about the start of the school year, and she wasnt showing interest, now Im not used to this at all, in fact I was pissed, so I kept going after her. Just recently I was playing some C&F with her, telling her about my **** size and everything like that, being a stubborn peice of **** that I always am, and when I was done with that, she told me that she thought I was hot and that she liked me. Ok now think of this, I used to be an AFC last summer, and now that Ive become more of a DJ, this girl tells me she likes me. I have surrounded myself with her since the beginning of last summer (AFC) and now Im starting to understand DJ, and then she tells me she likes me. BAM theres the whole challenge its over. This girl is drop dead gorgeous, HB9 or 10, and now that I know she thinks Im hot and that she likes me, my challenge is over. Now if you do the same with this girl, you get her to like you, you get her to want you, wheres you challenge now? Youll revert to your same old ways. Looking for another challenge. You just have a problem that you need to fix.