Ok, so heres the deal. I was the normal AFC for a while. I'd get dumped and all that crap and wonder what was goin on. I finally got the balls one day to go up to a girl I liked alot and dump her azz because she was treatin me like sh*t. It felt great and then I discovered this site and I am little by little startin to understand women. But ya, anyways. After I dumped the girl, I found another one and used techniques from this site. We are officially "together" now and her friends always tell me about how she always talks about me. They tell me about how she wants her first kiss to be with me. I can tell this girl wants me. I am finally in control, and it feels great. Of course as a student don juan, I'm still not too sure on what to do about things. See, Ive heard all this stuff about how she likes me, and even though we are BF and GF, I still havent even told her I like her. Is there a good way I can show to her or tell her that I like her with out coming off as the AFC? Have there been any ways that you all have shown a girl you like her without of course giving her the impression you need her? Or would the opposite work best, not telling her and just letting her wonder? Because thats basically what I did during the "chase" and it worked out pretty freakin well. Thanks.

you are boyfriend and girlfriend yet havent kissed? you need to change this, next time you are alone with her just do it. this will easily show that you like her without having to say it.

how long have you been going out? is she younger than you or just not very experienced (you said she hasnt kissed anyone before)??

We just started yesterday. The only reason I didn't kiss her is because her friends were always around. We were all watchin movies. I had her layin on top of me most of the time and I was teasin her alot and usin kino and all that good stuff.I felt like there was a really good connection It just didnt feel like the right time to kiss her though since her friends were right next to us. I didnt wanna force a kiss if it didnt feel like the time. She has never had a real kiss before and she is a couple years younger than me. I just want the first one to be really special and I want her to remember it for a long time. Shes never dated an older guy. She always dates people her age and I can tell shes a little intimidated. But ya, shes gonna get a good first kiss. Any tips for the first one? Girls have told me their first one was ruined because guys just shove their tongues down their throat.

im assuming that you have kissed girls before. you dont need to go for tongue straight away if at all during the first kiss, just kiss her on the lips and make it prolonged, gently biting her upper lip usually gets a good reaction.

if she is a couple of years younger you need to be careful. you're only 17 so its most likely that at her age she will be very slow to get to do anything more than kiss and even then shes just a kid dude.