I finally figured out how to get a girl by DJ'ing them. I broke out of the AFC-lets-take-the-I-want-to-be-friends-approuch. It started about a month ago. I was kind of just drifting along not really caring about girls. I knew my friend liked this one girl that we all hung out with (I didn't really hang out with that crowd too much) so I really never talked to her. Anyways being a good friend I went with them to do ****. Instead of being nice and all the afc ****, I was an ******* and made alot of jokes and talked about sex alot. So anyways my friend and this girl... Things didn't work out too good. Nothing bad, it just kind of faded (because he was going about it all afcish).

To make a long story short me and this girl kept talking. I didn't really like her too much and might of had some growing intrest. She is somewhat of a pimpette. As in alot of guys go for her but she always rejects them and doesn't really show them any affection. Big deal-Im not too into this girl anyways.

But before I get into my main question... The advice I have to offer is:
It's highschool. Of course you're going to have to get on AIM and talk... I say about 3 times a week for about 20 minutes. I do this, and the girls always IM me because we dont talk about.

Go from ass to sensitive guy. This has been explained, and guess what? It works very well. Be mature and yourself.

Anyways... This week is the last week until Christmas break. I come to school and this girl gives me some 30 dollar dvd that I have been wanting. Also... The other girls I went after but became an afc (but reformed) also gave me alot of ****, so being just a friend does have its good sides . My question is... Do I give her something? From a friend point of view? From a hookup point of view?

Also we are going to a party friday. She kept asking me to come along (more like begging) and kept saying **** like 'oh if I get drunk you can take advantage of me all you want' and 'Im hanging around you the entire night'... This sounds all good, but frankly I don't want to go to the party. Should I go? I guess I should because she spent $$$ on me. Ahh... Being a DJ is fun. Now Im the one rejecting the girls.

These questions are pretty situational. I wouldn't buy her anything, i'm pretty tight with those kinda things though i didnt even buy my gf a b'day present because i didnt think we had been going out long enough (and thats why she's obsessed with me), so dont buy her anything.

If i was you i would go to the party, i mean you almost definately gonna get some and even if you dont party's are still fun. But if you truely dont want to go, then dont go.

I would buy her something, just this once. She thought of you and put forth some effort. She can't say your cheap

lol, you really didn't get your girlfriend a b-day present? How long were you going out? If it was like more then 2 weeks I would get my girl a b-day present... doesn't have to be something big but still..

Who ever said we were going out? Who ever said it was her birthday? Learn how to read man. I wanted advice not questions.