“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

No gym workouts?

BuddhaSMASH

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2003
Messages
107
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
Tennessee
I have no money for a gym membership and no home gym equipment. Can anyone PLEASE help me figure out a workout routine that will help me drop weight (I need to lose 80 lbs) and gain muscle without weights?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

BuddhaSMASH

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2003
Messages
107
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
Tennessee
Originally posted by GigaloDJ
If you want to lose 80 lbs., you should not focus on building muscles at this point.

You need to do AEROBIC exercises and workouts. Jogging and such.

STRETCH. A LOT. ALL THE TIME, especially before any kind of workout.
Yeah, I realize this. I'm in the midst of an intense aerobic routine. But everything I've read says that muscle burns fat, plain and simple. Thats why I want to build muscle in the process. Anyone have any info that is helpful?
 

mateo_g

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 12, 2003
Messages
78
Reaction score
0
Age
50
Location
Palm Beach Gardens, FL
I agree that you should be out walking/running, doing a cycle or some other form of cardio until you drop weight. Then get on to lifting.

For lifting, you can get ghetto, or you can look in the classified adds for used free weights. This is a GREAT place to get dirt cheap benches, weights, bars and etc. People get this stuff, never use it, and sell it at yardsales and in the papers.

Get some paint cans/water jugs, broomsticks, and some sand. You can do the major compound exercises (squats, deadlifts, military press, bench press, clean and jerk) with a bit of creative thinking.

Also do wide h and placement and narrow hand placement pushups, get some chairs and do dips, one leg standing squat with your arms folded, crunches - hell, you can get yourself into really great shape just using your body weight - but you won't get very big until you can get into a regular free weight program.
 

Neo

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2003
Messages
122
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by BuddhaSMASH
Yeah, I realize this. I'm in the midst of an intense aerobic routine. But everything I've read says that muscle burns fat, plain and simple. Thats why I want to build muscle in the process. Anyone have any info that is helpful?
more muscle speeds up your metabolism, so yea, in essence it burns fat, but you can't burn fat and gain muscle at the same time, you'd have to be some sort of genetic freak to pull that off.
See, when losing weight (fat) your body needs to be in a calorie deficit ( you gotta use up more calories than you ingest), on the other side, when you're gaining weight (muscle) your body needs to be in a calorie surplus (eat more calories than you use up).
 
Top