“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What if I just assumed she wants to get with me?

Matlm

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read this post first please, so you have a better understanding of the situation.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=43928

A few guys Who i know are really good at getting with girls have told me to "just assume she wants to get with you, you really have to believe she wants you."

have any of you tried this before, has it worked? or is it just BS. Does what you believe really have any effect on what actually happens?
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Yes =) ? Any girl I find attractive I believe wants me because I'm a great and attractive guy. That's my mentality atleast.

Don't know if it helps but I've never been brushed of in a convo or never met any coldness in a discussion. But I'm really extrovert and energetic and my friends tell me that I light up rooms with my energy so it's a mixture of things like that.
 

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Read this article called the "The Kiss of Death" by Allen Thompson, the owner and creator of this site. In my opinion, it is the best post/article on this board and about getting women in general.

It is also the exact answer to your question.


http://www.sosuave.com/articles/kiss.htm

[edit, I also recommend that everyone read every article by Allen in the Articles section on the main site.]
 

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Damn. I needed that. Thank you so much.

and OMFG, things started to get weird with her once I started obsessing. I agree with you that it's the best post ever.
 
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