Today at school, a funny thing happened. I felt completely "out of it" when talking to anyone really. Just one of those days where you're sore, tired, bored with finals, and you just want to get on with things. You don't feel like a conversationalist at all. You don't feel on top of your game. A few jokes come out, but they're not even your best ones.

Now, when talking to girls, this is normally a bad thing, right? Not really. As long as I was giving this particular girl alot of EC, looking her straight in the eye probably 70% of the time, she carried the conversation and became more interested in me than I was of her. She took the initiative to sit down with me and have some dinner in the food court after briefly talking to me in one of my classes.

Don't be afraid to show some disinterest! To think when I use to knock myself out trying to memorize "lines" and "routines". My head was too cloudy to memorize any of that stuff today.

When a cute girl ( a solid Hb 7.75) asks, "so, when will I see you again", and you weren't even on your game....it's a testament to the power of the information on this board (especially EC).
Look her dead straight in the eye, don't check out her breasts or anything, just her eye. Pick one and stick with it. When you pass the point of "no return", that moment when it starts to get uncomfortable for you, keep going. Make her break it first.
Throw in some laughs and a few lame jokes so she knows you're not some pyscho. Even if you feel like sh1t, it can still take you places (I got a date with this girl).

Originally posted by StockTrader
To think when I use to knock myself out trying to memorize "lines" and "routines".

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Bingo!

Just shows the wonders of being yourself dude.

I know what you guys are saying. I've had that happen twice now, I believe its cause women can sense that you are not in the right state of mind to play DJ games with them and therefore are actually your normal self and she can really see everything without having to dig to hard. Plus it shows that your human and have bad days too.

i used to get this a lot... its from lack of sleep, or thats how it is for me. another thing was that id workout from 8-9pm or around there, then go out to party.. and i was just exhausted from working out... didnt feel like drinking, too tired to hold a convo, etc

like when i stay up studying for finals ALL NIGHT (NO ****ING SLEEP) and walk to class at 10am... i feel like a ****ing zombie, i just stare at everyone like if they say something to me ill kill them, its when im really tired that i truely dont give a sh1t about anything