“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Big Pappy

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Recently, I was tricked into admitting I was color blind, when I'm not.

I'm not sure how this will work, putting this down in writing. A verbal exercise is best. However, the lesson is pretty inisghtful.

Whereever you are, right now, I want you to look around the room for anything that is brown. Anything and everything. Right now. Maybe your wallet is brown, right there on your desk. Maybe your desk is brown. Maybe you have a shirt on the floor that is brown. Maybe you're in a cyber cafe, what is brown there?

Behind you, under you, left, right, up, down. Looking for things that are brown. Now, before you shut your eyes for 30 seconds, I'm going to have you get a mental image of where all the brown items are.

Now, before you shut them, use your hands to sort of give yourself tunnel vision so that you can read the next step after 30 seconds. It may not work, as I said, it should be verbal. But here goes.

While your eyes are closed, picture where every brown item is. Close your eyes now. While they're closed, what in the area is red? Blue? Yellow. Without looking, picture in your head everything that is red, yellow or blue.


You might be better off trying this with someone else in order for the point to be valid.


The point of the exercise is that while we focus on looking for brown, we lose focus on every other color.

So what does that really mean for the DJ? It means that opportunity is all around us. We just have to see it. We spend so much time looking for something specific, (i.e.: a girl) that we miss other opportunities. (another girl, a job, etc.)



So, remember, try to see everything - not just what you're looking for.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by Big Pappy
The point of the exercise is that while we focus on looking for brown, we lose focus on every other color.

So what does that really mean for the DJ? It means that opportunity is all around us. We just have to see it. We spend so much time looking for something specific, (i.e.: a girl) that we miss other opportunities. (another girl, a job, etc.)

So, remember, try to see everything - not just what you're looking for.
beautiful. absolutely wonderful.

i'd also like to add that if you are looking for something specific, you just may delude yourself into thinking it is really there. ever read stephen king's needful things?
 
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