ok guys, tricky one this. I goto college and theres this teacher who teaches me. Shes not much older than me and into the same sorta things, i dont know if im just being optimistic but she seems interested in what i get up 2 (the other week she was askin me if i get many women coming onto me cos of my job as a barman) Anyway how do you all reckon i go about hooking it up without ****ing it up???

P.S. She seems interested, but i dunno.

Next time she asks you that type of question, throw it back at her. Ask her "What do you think?" "If you were at the bar, would you come on to me?" How she answers will tell you so much about where she's coming from. Make sure to pay attention to her body language; gestures, tone of voice, eyes, tempo, etc.

This will be better than any direct answer you can give her. If she doesn't answer initially, tell her, "There must be a reason why you are asking me that, would you mind telling me what it is?"

If you get a favorable response, proceed by asking her, "Would you be coming onto me just because I am the barman?" Haha. This should be enough to get you the info you want and know how to proceed. If she tries to avoid your question, you can still learn a lot by what she doesn't say. She will communicate even without answering. Its on baby! I envy you. Ha.

Good advice, ta. When she asked me, she was sayin that when she used to work ina bar she had loadsa fella comin onto her. So i dunno She always seems interested and defo gives me one of them looks, but i mite just be being optimistic. Basically i reckon she knows the risks of being to obvious, as do I. The problem is how do i check the situation, without looking like a right tit, or creating a harsh student teacher vibe.

If i **** up and shes not interested, i will feel well embarrassed about going into class and it will make things messy.

i reckon she wants it, but im not 100%

Alrigth Dawg,

Is this a college course you are taking? If so, will you be done with the semester/quarter pretty soon? I would build up some interest by flirting and droppin' some ****y comedy on her. Then at the end of the course, tell her you should get together; if she has high IL she will appreciate you waiting until the end of the course. You are the man, and should be excited about the opportunity you have. Don't worry about a thing. Just pace yourself. Don't show too much interest, and definitely don't over stay your welcomes.

Next time asks you those type of questions, you can turn it around making an as a matter of fact stament, something like "I guess it can happen.
Just like as a teacher, you're probably hit on by a lot of students." Say it as a statement and sit back and wait for the response. This will tell you if she is open to it. If she says she wouldn't go out with a sudent, you still haven't been rejected because you didn't ask her out, you were "test closing."

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