Yo guys!

I'd like to share some kind of 'dilemma' with you.

Firstly I want you to know that the past weeks (months) I spent a lot of time studying the DJ Bible and the Fast-Seduction website.

This website gave me a enormous confidence boost and a different view amongst girls. And people around me can tell that, by my actions. Yeah, I think I can consider myself as an RAFC now .

Now I met a guy at school, who's exactly at the same level as me. I introduced him at the ''becoming player stuff'' and he is as enthousastic as I am. But he lives 30 km away from me, so we only chase the girl at school (so he's my all-time wingman, that's for sure)!

But anyways, I met my current group of friends when I was a real AFC. And they say that people atrract the same kind of people. In other words, my friends are still AFC! And I even think some of them are worse than that... Even when you know the guys are good looking, well-dressed buy just have 0 confidence with girls.

So, the problem is that I want to chase the girls in my hometown and I want to fall in their taste as a 'group'! You know what I mean? You see a lot of groups popular guys, that attract groups of girls and end up with relationship and all. But our group just doesn't attract girls. So lately I tried to introduce this stuff to them but they are so stubborn and conservative like they are 'waiting' for the girls to come over.

And when we're going out, they only think about 'drinking and smoking weed the whole night till they drop', and that's it. And when I ask them to chase girls, they think that I'm joking or something. Pfff......

Man... I get frustrated by this and they ARE my friends you know!

Does anyone know this problem? And what can I do?

lol - it only gets worse - wait until most of your friends are as good as married and not allowed out

Seriously, most guys I know are so clueless that I'm embarrassed to go clubbing with them - so I usually go on my own. Eventually you get to know people there and it's all good.

It's a bit of a leap but if you can go out clubbing alone you can do anything. If you feel like everyone thinks you're a loser with no friends then don't - no one cares what people get up to in bars. If a chick asks why you're alone then tell them the truth - that your friends are lamers and you have more fun and meet more interesting people when you go out alone

I tire of this conversation.

While it's great to go out and meet new girls and guys and make new friends at clubs, what is the point of being a DJ if,


you get rid of all your friends if THEY are not exactly like you.

Seems like everybody is so easy to dump a friend just because, hey they aint a DJ LIKE.

What's the freaking point. You get rid of friends cause they aint you. Well, might as well go jump off a bridge now, cause you'll be dumping everybody.

Not get rid of all friends because they aren't like you. But there's no point keeping around friends who's goals aren't the same as yours in life, or who don't help and actually hinder your achieving your goals in life. What's the point of being a DJ if you just surround yourself with friends who, intentionally or not, ****block you continuously.

Thanks guy, for your advise.

Well, I'm not going to dump my friends, alright? But maybe it's a good idea to get more independent when it comes down to the chicks. I could make some new DJ friends, to chase the girls with.

But I realize it's just frustrating going out with buddy's, who have totally different intentions.

I'm just going out and meet some chicks, alright...