I have read the DJ bible and am pretty good at holding conversation by asking open ended questions and so forth, but I always feel that the conversation is always going into the wrong direction and I don't know how to change it. I don't know how to go from the fluff talk to a more sexual conversation. I just need tips on how I can add a more sexual tone to the conversation so I can get her turned on.

This is a common problem, and it can be kind of tough to fix.

First, work on your own confidence, and reading people better. The more confidence you have, the better you're going to be able to pull off whatever you do say. And the better you can read other people...the better your chances are of being interpretted the way you intended to be.

I would also recommend watching a lot of different movies with characters in them that act similar to how you want to act, or that have characteristics that you are trying to emulate.

Here are some examples...

All the James Bond flicks
Cruel Intentions
Thomas Crown Affair
Don Juan DeMarco
The Saint
Tao of Steve
Scarface
Godfather
Goodfellas

"Joo gotta a look on jor face like joo havn't been ****ed in years"

Ahh... Scarface... what a movie.

Yeah, I have this same problem. It's pretty tough I think. It all depends on what the chicks feelings on sex and crap are. If you go to strong you could weird her out, but if you go too light, she'll brush you off as a friend.

I dunno... I can't really help much. To be honest, i could use some advice here too...

-Mr. Pink

Heres an idea!

Go to the Tips forum

Read "Escaping the Friend Zone" by Fingers

you will like!