When are high goals too high? You know, the goal every guy has: to get a HB. My question is when are high goals (i.e. wanting to date an HB9) too high? I haven't been on a date in a while now and I think it's because I have become too picky. Any words of advice?

Keep your long term goals very high, but start on some nice looking (6.5-8) to develop your dj skills. Use the advice in the bible, and then you will find your own niche and moves. Look at it like this; you are improving your skills, if you get some dates so be it. Don't be picky, just make sure the girls you approach are attractive. There is no reason to work your skills on pigs.

Even so, don't be reluctant to approach 9+ girls, to realize they are just as human as everyone else and rejection is nothing to fear.

But keep your long term goals very high. Never settle for anything less than what you want in life; but make sure you are doing this for yourself as a way to improve, and the girls will be attracted to you.

yeah I suffered from your same problem for a while. I was so picky that I only wanted HB8+, but there are so few of them that I would be out of the practice of dating, so when I would get one, I really wasn't up on my game. Sacrafice your pickiness will be easy though if you think of it as if you are just "building relationships". Build relationships friendly to sexual relationships with 6-8's and you will find that getting to these HB9's will be no problem. Especially when the HB9's always have 6-8 friends that you may have been "friends" with. Hey as long as you stay a truly mysterious DJ, she can never say that you were "together" with her friend. If you have this alterior motive in the back of your mind....as long as you don't allow it to be your main goal (i mean you must enjoy the girls company) then you will get to these fine friends of theirs, or even use these 6-8's to attract tighter ones when you are out with them.

I know what you mean bro, the best I've pulled was a HB6, and that was only because she came onto me.....

I wasn't happy with these chics though, now I'm not settling for anything less then I feel I truly deserve, the quality of pvssy you pull is very important. Do you want to date some average chic and then when she wants to phuck you think in your head "shyt, I know pvssy is pvssy but this is low grade gear I've gotta hit now"

Go after 100 HB8+ and you'll get your ego battered somewhat, but I think you'll get at least 1 in the sack if you play you cards right. 1 babe to fukk in the kunt is always better then fukking 1000 mingers who you have to put a brown paper bag over their head just to stay hard. Talking from experience here. Quality over quantity.

Good luck. Hang in there. I'm trying too.