I don't know how many of you have eitehr recieved or written letters/email expression ones feelings before but I was wondering what the general consensus was on these.

I have recieved these from a few girls and they basically set out how they feel in an eloquent way and while I haven't had interest in the girls I have always been really touched by these letters as it takes time and thought to compose one and it really puts someone on the line.

They probably sound a bit AFC but I have recently been thinking of sending one. I am dealing with a girl who tends to avoid people directly confronting her iwth things like this and hides behind masks. Any thoughts or advice on things to say?

imho,

if you're not french, spanish, or speak with a strong foreign accent, you might wanna shy away from composing letters of this sort. if you are considering writing some girl you have been going out with for your whole life, and or are married to her, then i guess its ok.

if she hides from people when they confront her with such amorous feelings, then shes really like every other girl. all girls, unless they are interested in you will run from confrontations. and lie to your face to be nice.

confrontations. thats a strong word to use, and i dont think this is how a DJ would go about wooing a girl. when you confront someone, you are in front of them, about to battle them in some way, shape or form. when you're talking to a girl and you're trying to attract her, i don think confronting her and pinning her reaction is a constructive way to achieve your goal.

if you were to grab some girl by the arms, and shake her like a milkshake, slap her a few times and tell her you like her and that she better like you using ebonic prose or shakespearean poetry, shes probably going to say no. unless she likes you. this is like some kind of universal constant.

if you are purely interested in romantic writing for yourself, then i suggest you keep a journal or a diary or some other mechanism to channel your creativiy. maybe you can exploit these writings by claiming to be a poet or an artist. artsy girls dig that i suppose.

at any rate, i suggest you work on attracting the girl. a girl who is genuinely interested in you will be drawn to you, and you wont have to do any running around to get her to do what you want.

just 2 cents

I have recieved these from a few girls and they basically set out how they feel in an eloquent way and while I haven't had interest in the girls

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So in your experience when someone sends you a letter, you still aren't attracted to them. Why, with this great experience on how heartfelt letters do not work, would you want to write one?

I'm being a smartass, but the point holds. If you feel a need to write someone a letter telling them how you feel, it's because they're not choosing you. If they were you wouldn't need letters, you'd know.

Leave letters for LTRs. It means more and its less AFC.