i was just wondering: today i was at work, and i got into a verbal "dispute" about another coworker (i wanted to holla at this coworker, but she had a man, but we talked a few times and now another coworker teases the girl i wanted to get to know about everytime i talk to her, so i think that's why she avoids me now) but anyway we were disputing and two called me an a$$4ole (ill say "a" b/c i don't feel like typing the whole word) and said now they know why i don't have a girl. these are fat chicks so i didn't let it get to me.

but i was wondering, is there such a thing as being too much of of an a$$4ole? everytime a coworker or other girl asks me for a favor, i either say ill think about it and do it later, i laugh and walk away, or i give them a weird look like (what am i ur dam slave) and walk away. alot of girls jokingly call me a punk because of it, but i know they mean well....and sometimes me and a girl get into a joking **** talking match and call me an "a" for going too far, even though i am defending myself and I never apologize when i do insult them, u think that's bad? im just curious on ur opinions.

nothing wrong with doing favors for people... as long as they are willing to return the favor when you need one..... its when they take advantage of you that you have to stand up for your self and call them on it.. just my 2 cents.. good luck!

I have the same problem. I am seriously thinking it might actually be true. I might not even notice ... that is bad

Reminds me of this hot young blonde in the bank office. She would ask me to do some of her reports since her workload is more than mine.

Once she asked me to do one. I gave her a dirty look, but did it for her anyway since I had nothing to do at that time and said "You owe me" in a serious voice, but wouldnt say what she owed me.

At the end of our shift I noticed she was feeling up tight and eventually ran up to me and said: "Okay, you win. What do you want?"

In the end I laughed at her. Its funny to see her so venurable like that, since so many AFC guys in the office love supplicating to her.

Originally posted by la-migra-is-after-me

but i was wondering, is there such a thing as being too much of of an a$$4ole? everytime a coworker or other girl asks me for a favor, i either say ill think about it and do it later, i laugh and walk away, or i give them a weird look like (what am i ur dam slave) and walk away

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Well, do you react that way because you don't have time to help them out or don't want to, or is it because you just don't think that you should be doing people favours? I think that might be your problem.

If you have a reason for not helping them out thats fine, but being an a$shole just for the sake of it is pretty damn stupid and won't get you much respect about the place. Theres nothing wrong with doing the right thing as long as you're not being taken advantage of.