“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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moose10

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Ok, since i am clueless about this matter, i'd like to ask you experienced DJs here, hope you guys give me some good advice. Have you ever been in situation where you are by yourself, and happens to meet two girls (they're friends sitting/eating/studing/walking/in the car together), and you really like both of them and you really want to ask their phone numbers....

Do you...

1. Pick one girl + ask for her number

2. Ask both

3. Just play cool (next) and hope that you'll bump one of them alone next time

I think #1 would be good choice but that's too risky...You might get ****blocked by her friend

How would you handle this?
 

LJC

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Walk up to them, start talking, read the signals and take it from there.
 

Big Pappy

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Hmmm. I'm glad someone asked this, and I'm glad Iqqi responded.

My two cents: You can't ljbf them. once that happens, it's difficult to turn the corner.
Regrettably, I think the safer way is to not go for the number close until you know both girls a bit better. In that sense, I agree with Iqqi. The DJ way, however, does not care about "safe". He tries to get what he wants. If the lady can not share, the lady gets none.

Of primary importance is to assess their interest levels before you # close.
Example:
A similar situation occurred with me. Two girls, both cute, both stand up chicks, always ready to buy me a drink, just because I ask them to as a joke! (I return the favor, of course.)

Well, I found out recently that they're not old enough to be in the pub that I work at. The little vixens had been showing up before I start my shift.

So, they goof one weekend showing up late, and since Mr. ABC (alcohol beverage control) is standing right there, I card them
and determine that they're too young. I could tell that they were more upset that they couldn't joke and hang out with me during my slow times, so I just got both of their numbers. I dated one on Monday, one on Wednesday.
I swear, I felt Mormon. I took them to the same restaurant, and we played air hockey and pool. I got "further" with Wednesday than with Monday. I'm thinking it's because Monday had told Wednesday(not sure, but it's likely) what we had done.

Wednesday: Didn't you do the same thing with Monday?
Me: yes
Wednesday: Isn't that kind of weird?
Me: No, what better way for me to figure out which one of you I like best?
Wedneday: Well, that sucks. I can't compete with Monday. She's beautiful.
Me: It's not about looks, it's about fun. You're not fishing for a free compliment are you? Because right now, I'm kicking your butt in this game.
Wednesday: Yeah? <she scored! >


In my case, I'd been flirting with these two for a couple of weeks. I never got their number because they were there for me at work. No sense me spending my cash on them; they'll spend their own. Heck, in a lot of ways, I dated them both on their dime during the same nights.
 
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