I've put up enough ink about this but it is really getting on my nerves. If I am being too sensitive about it, I wouldn't mind being corrected.

My g/f has a reunion coming up (Sat.) and half-assed invited me, then continued to make constant reference to it and how miserable she was about going alone (and I mean constantly).

So I did the gentlemanly thing and said that I'd go with her (I figured she was trying to feel me out).

She gave me this long thing about how she wanted to ask many times but was worried about whether I'd have a good time, would I think it was too soon in our relationship (6 mos.), and the fact that HS reunions are rough on the attendees. It clearly was an invite in words but she clearly was torn between wanting me to go and not, so I just sat still on the subject.

So, long story short is that she doesn't really want me to go at all but she keeps mentioning it. I was taught that referring to a party that someone else isn't invited to is poor form.

Am I being too sensitive?

Go and make a point out of wanting to be there.

I think she went out on a limb in asking me to her family for Turkey Day (or offering it if I had nothing else), wanting to hang out on Friday, and I think she was nervous of what might happen at the reunion. With all of this, I am still feeling like a chump.

Secretly, and secret from myself, is the fact that I am worried that she'll hook up with someone from high school, as weak as that worry is.

Since this is silly and I'm risking getting over-emotional and appearing to be such, I am going to just go out of town for the weekend and get some space to figure out if I can still be alone or if there's something too dependant, etc., here for me.

Dude...

Your looking too deep into it.

She has mixed emotions about going. It's not you. If she wants you to go, go. Just put it on the line. Go if she wants you to. If not, don't go. don't be offended. Don't be jealous.

Don't worry about her hooking up with some one. She might. She might hook up with the guy at 7-11. She might hook up with anyone. If you are going to date women, you can't worry about her hooking up with someone else.

Yes, I say you're being too sensitive about
the whole thing. Let her go alone.
Afterwards, ask her about it - she'll
probably have some interesting
stories to tell after a reunion !

All good points. I agree and I'm going to spend the holiday with my family.

I got kind of tight about it because she basically wanted me to spend Thanksgiving and then Friday with her, but she kept talking like she wanted me to disappear in time for the reunion(i.e., basically give up on any family plans out of town even if that meant having nothing to do over the weekend).

Obviously, that wasn't her intent but if I had agreed to do anything with her, that's how it would have worked out. So the best thing is just to let everyone do their own thing.

For whatever reason, now that I am more involved, I am looking hawkishly for signs of disrespect (this is the girl who got jealous on an after-work bar tour that I referred to my LTR (that was ending at the time) and proceeded to sit on people's laps to get my attention).

The more I look, the more doofy I become.