Before I ascend to a new level of Power and Ambition, I think that it is only fair that I share the wisdom that got me to this point in my life.


Nothing comes without a cost. Focus. Calm down that raging storm in your mind and let the rays from the life- giving sun lift your spirit.

I will never, I MEAN NEVER, go back to mundane state of existence I once called acceptable. It is not acceptable, nothing except Absolute Power and Complete Control is.

I know these words will carry little weight to some, but to those that feel like it's hopeless, here me loud and clear. YOUR REDEMPTION IS HERE. NOW. With every one of these words that are absorbed, I mean trully accepted, means the beginning of the end for your tortured soul.


In order to unleash you maximum potential follow each of these lessons. Absorb each one, build on each one until all 7 combine to elevate you from the ashes. Let's begin............


#1 KNOWLEDGE: The Foundation

Its a proven fact, knowledge is power. Power. If you want to empower your life, LEARN. Recently, I've began reading everything
The more I learn the stronger I feel. Knowledge is power. Never forget!

#2 Power: The Enforcer

Power brings respect and fear. Get physical power by working out and mental power by gathering knowledge.

#3 Honor: The Pillars on which power stands

Honor yourself, your body, and those you hold dear to you. Honor your word and you will receive...............................

#4 Repect: Respect amplifies the aforementioned

By honoring your power of knowledge you gain self- respect. By attaining self-respect, you gain respect from your peers in the form of jealousy or admiration.

#5 Loyalty: The twin of respect

By attaining respect you also gain another important ally, Loyalty. The loyalty I speak of isn't the loyalty you receive but, most importantly the loyalty you have for yourself and the four previous lessons.

#6 Truth: The magnifing glass that brings everything into focus

By being honest with yourself and demanding it from others you'll cut through I look of confusion. When you feel confused remind yourself of the truth......... You are a warrior because of the simple that that very confusion my have you frustrated at the minute, but it isn't that big of a deal BECAUSE YOU"RE STILL ALIVE. By accepting and embracing the truth, you have know ascended to the very top of the mountain.....................


#7 Love: The top of the Mountain ( THE PRIZE)

We'll arrived to the last and final lesson. Love for yourself is equal to love for your enemies. Love yourself more than you love anyone on this planet. Don't put others before yourself, simple let them bask in the amazing love you have for yourself.

L O V E
T R U T H
L O Y A L T Y
R E S P E C T
H O N O R
P O W E R
K N O W L E D G E

The journey begins with knowledge of self and ends with love for self. As you can see, knowledge is the foundation. Love is the reward for beginning your search for knowledge.

I adopted these gems about 5 years ago when I hit rock bottom. Upon coming to this site they have been magnified and have taken on a life of their own. I am currently standing on the top of the mountain,Self-Love. The other keys- truth, loyalty, respect, honor, power, and knowledge now fight their own battles. Remember, learn each lesson one by one building on and combing them all until you reach the top.

If I had more time I could've made a more grand presentation, but since I don't, there it is............. I've given you the beginning and the path it is now up to u to follow through.

B O L D AND F R E E

i dont like people that sit on the mountain of "self-love". they come off as selfish idiots.

the people i like and am attracted to are the ones that at least appear to care about other people more than themselves.

true love for those around you makes you an attractive person.

lack of negativity makes you an attractive person.

loving yourself "more than anyone on the planet" is not the answer.

loving yourself "more than anyone on the planet" is not the answer

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DEKKA i must totaly dissagree with you on that one..because you live your life for yourself and to make yourself happy..theres no one more important then yourself. You should love yourself more then any one..that doesn't mean you can't love any one else alot.

DEKKA, you are in error. Don't try to deceive yourself. You should realize self-love is important... How can you truly love someone when you don't love yourself? Do you adore those who choose to abuse you?

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DEKKA i must totaly dissagree with you on that one..because you live your life for yourself and to make yourself happy..theres no one more important then yourself. You should love yourself more then any one..that doesn't mean you can't love any one else alot.

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it think we're talking basically about two different elements of self-love.

-there is a self-love that includes self-respect, self-esteem, self-confidence, and focusing on ones goals without compromise. this form is a good and beneficial form and keeps us DJs from slipping with regards to women. it keeps us on the pedestal, keeps us directed where we need to go, and keeps us from supplicating. good sense of self is very important and caring and respecting yourself is essential.

-on the other hand there is another self-love that is, most accurately described, selfishness. it is the believe that somehow you are different and better than the billions of your fellows with whom you share this rock in space- the believe that somehow you deserve more, are smarter than, and are entitled to special treatment because you.... are you. this quality is unattractive to those around you. a true seducer knows the power of never exalting himself too high because human nature creates resentment in those who see it. you must be focused on yourself but not appear to be if that makes sense. i guarantee if you are giving off the vibe that you think you are "more important than everyone else on the planet" you won't be charming people but creating resentment.

-J