I just downloaded the best book ever, which is that DJ Bible. Yes and i even printed it out all 100 plus pages.

Now my question is, am i getting hooked into something that isnt really that great and have to snap back into reality. Maybe i get wipped to easy and this is normal.

I have only been with like 5 chicks on dates. I have never had a realationship at all. then i meet this girl and we totally connect. WE have a great time we go out and non stop talk, never seems like a boring moment. But, i mean is this site reallly meant to show you how to date multiple woman and become a player?

it seems like more and more people conform and talk about how to be a mystery, dont go out and date, just hang out and bangout. etc.

Well is there really a good time if u feel it is right and make that girl a girlfriend? or am i just to crazy and have no had enough experience and just capture and want to hold tight anything that comes my way?

Like i said im not a experienced dater, never had sex, and not a don juan at all. Im trying to get there by starting the bible, but i cant understand with all the woman out ther, this one i like so much and have alot in commom and have fun and she isnt al that 6-7.

Hmm im confused as hell and most likely confused you. Maybe cause this is the closest i been with a chick and iim just settling for it.

by the way im 21 and ready to go back to college, maybe all those hotties will snap me back in line.dont know im just thinking and reading.

Actually, that was a lil harsh.

There is nothing wrong with having a girlfriend perse, its just important that you keep your head on straight and not thinking through the lil one.

I've been enfatuated with women soo many times I can hardly remember... Maybe the best advice for you would be to stop thinking about women for about a month or so... I have this feeling you would benefit.

BUT just a month. THen you gotta go out full force because you will be doing everything else that it recommends in the bible in the meantime... people will still eventually answer your questions, but you just gotta do.

peace

But now, 10 min later, notice that it took you 45x odd posts to finally start reading the friggin bible...

There should be like a quiz of the bible material during the signup screeen... this test should be administerred to everyone and whoever fails must take another test to get to post again...

No... wait... naww.. I'm done... good night.

Nothing wrong with dating one girl at a time. Call her when you wish. However, just don't smother her. Continue to improve who you are. Don't let your life revolve around her, nor hers around you. Just hang out and have some fun. You can certainly have an LTR and be a Don Juan. Just be a man.

in shyguy's other post he said the girl he is dating works with him. it wont be easy for him to take a month off from women and just dating this one girl alone is gonna make it hard for him to keep from getting oneitits.. just because you are dating multiple woman does not mean you are a player.. nothing wrong with that anyway.. it makes you a better catch to women.. date at least a couple other chicks while you date the one at work.. when she is ready for a relationship let her ask you for one.. then you can be exclusive with her.. until then keep your mind on your work and the other women your dating because once this girls sees that your falling for her you will no longer be a challenge to her.. good luck!

Listen to big pappy and openmind. they hit the nail on the head. I couldn't have said it better!!!