I got a clueless friend.He has GREAT social abilities and I often wonder how he manages to do it .My skills are great but hes something to look at when he goes into ANY bars/clubs and everyone knows him.

He has a big proplem thou.He lacks self esteem,a lot.He has an hard time at school and he studies all the time but he wont beleive he can do things right and therefore he wont do them rights.

He told me about this girl he really liked and showed me who she was.She looks good but thats it.I asked him what was the problem.The thing is that he knows her a little but he firmly beleives hes not good enough for a woman "that beautyfull".Thats what he tells everyone out loud.I kept telling him she keeps peeking at him from times 2 times but he wont beleive me because he wont beleive in himself first.

When I told him that theres no woman on this planet better than me, he started to tell me I was just full of myself and that really beautifull woman are the best thing evar blablabla worship them blablabla... yadaa yadaa yadaa...the thing is that everyone around seemed to agree with him.

WTF IS GOING ON?Am I the only one to "get it" or am I the one whos totally clueless?

Hmmm maybe he needs to find this site?

As far as clueless? now why would you doubt yourself even for a minute? You KNOW you are the man!! I mean you have been putting up some very informative posts here for folks wanting a opinion. I've read a few. way to go. Keep em guessing!

Originally posted by Jet Jockey
Hmmm maybe he needs to find this site?

As far as clueless? now why would you doubt yourself even for a minute? You KNOW you are the man!! I mean you have been putting up some very informative posts here for folks wanting a opinion. I've read a few. way to go. Keep em guessing!

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Sounds like Sarcasm eludes you as well...

From now on Ill use the [Sarcasm] text [/Sarasm] format so you idiots understand.

so MrBond, what is it that you really want to know? that most guys are AFC's? clue us in here? no pun intended.. we want to help you out man.

I wasnt really looking for help but more for reactions.Since Im not the main actor here I cant really do but point some stuff to my friend who declines my encouragements.

Originally posted by MrBond007
I wasnt really looking for help but more for reactions.Since Im not the main actor here I cant really do but point some stuff to my friend who declines my encouragements.

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Just point him to this site. He will get all the help he needs, with his problem of not being able to DJ her. Man, I bet theres other opinions besides your that might make sense, and be right on target. I hope nobody tells him to next her! LOL

Bond:

I will go with everyone else and advise you to point him to this site. Tell him to read The Bible, then again, and one last time. If he doesn't get it at all, refer him to these boards. I'll be glad to personally give advice. Best of luck to him.
Peace.