Ive been thinking lately...and it turns out that I seldom ask out girls. I only feel comfortable asking them out after knowing them for a while. For instance, I see hot ladies all the time, but its very difficult for me to start talking to them and stuff because they are in different classes or whatever.

How do u guys deal with this??

Like Nike says "just do it"

the way i got over it is by thinking to myself "this girl probably isn't going to give me her email but i'll do this just to prove i can"

this is my standard approach... (props to Dave D)

Hi I just have quick question for you

what

Are you single

(insert yes)

I'm in a bit of rush, but do you have email

(insert yes)

Great give it to me...

(She writes it)

I'll be in touch...



if she says no I say "that's unfortunate for you"

Even if chicks are not single they usually like the attention and will thank you for asking... if they are single they usually give it out...

if they stammer and ham N Haw I say "I'll take that to mean your single enough to give me your email"

But you've just got to make yourself ask... after a while you'll get over the fear

E-MAIL????????????? Oh stop it. e-mails are bull**** to ask for.

Is that really how David DeAngelo recommends you do a pick up: just go up to girls and ask if they are single?

Girls in my program are ugly. But I have been trying to make new friends daily.

I just say hi and comment on something. i.e. I ask them questions bout homework or something, so it's natural. Then move on from there.

That's how you get started, but I've been having trouble staying in contact with them. They're very responsive and talkative during the convo, but after that they see you and they don't even say hi. I'm not even trying to pick them up either, I'm in mangement and I'm trying to establish good job networks for the future. This has been my experience with white girls (I'm chinese in a management program with 80% + chinese students).

Been able to make firends with guys a lot easier, using similar approaches, but thats not what you're lookin for.

Try try again, gl

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
E-MAIL????????????? Oh stop it. e-mails are bull**** to ask for.

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Whatever dude... they work for me

Originally posted by EternalBachelor
Is that really how David DeAngelo recommends you do a pick up: just go up to girls and ask if they are single?

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Its one way of many... i like it because it cuts through the bull**** right away, and you never get the boyfriend bomb half way through what you thought was a date...