Eric Smith
Don Juan
I have decided that after being here for slightly more than six months, it is time for me to depart from these boards...for good. I wanted to leave in brief increments but it seems like I have basically graduated from these boards and ready to move on. I will not come back.
Anyway, I figured for my last post I'd tell a little tale of myself and how I felt I changed completely in just six months.
Before coming to this site I hit rock bottom with women. I hit rock bottom meaning that it was the end of HS and achieved absolutely nothing in terms of women. I got one phone number in 10th grade (she was 8.5-9) but was too afraid to call. In fact, I registered a week before prom. Everyone was talking about the magnificent "Senior Experience" and how they found out themselves, how their lives were changing, etc. Yet after a deep introspection late night, I realized I never achieved anything in my year except get a 27 on the ACT (which I could have done much better but I slacked off way too much in HS) and get accepted to my first choice college.
It seemed like every month my senior year I'd promise to change myself, get a girlfriend, etc. and did nothing. I'd say a few sentences to a few girls and got a very positive response back but that was it. At the end of the month I'd be dissatisfied with my situation. In fact, I kind of gave up on myself around the beginning of 2003. Before I was 235 lbs and in decent shape. I started working all the time, feeling sorry for myself, living on the PC, etc. and in two months I went up to 250 lbs! Anyway, it was one week before prom and I was looking at my fat body, my unshaven-for-five-days face, and how bad I felt. Something seemed a touch different though.
I genuinely wanted to change.
Around this time I got a link to this board and started to post. I got a good reception from the users here and began the healing process. I started to approach girls and got numbers quick. I started working out and started to feel good about myself. All of this culminated and about a month later from coming here, I was no longer a virgin. For the first 2/3 of the summer, I felt great. However I began to slack off. I went to the gym less. I ate crappy food again. My game, which used to be great was getting really dull. For the first 2-3 weeks of college, I was almost back at Square One.
At this time I began hitting the DJ Bible and basically going back to the basics (I still do from time to time if I'm ever bored) I started to do a little better. Then my life changed in late September when I was mugged at gunpoint. It changed my life. I think before I was an AFC. Now I was a DJ. I was no longer afraid of anything anymore. I think the only thing I was afraid of was going back to my old ways. I started to fine tune my game and the rest is history.
I'm still learning new tactics. I will probably still read the Bible from time to time in case I need something good to do. However I am going away for good now. I just have a few tips that I want to share with everyone here:
- You should never be afraid of anything in life, especially attractive women.
- You are the first and foremost priority in your life. If you're not, get your priorities straight.
- I recommend making at least one new friend a week. It will help you get word of great parties, meet with new people (especially females)
- Social proof is really overrated; if you friends are CBs, leave them behind. They will CB you at every chance, whether they know it or not.
- Take care of important matters first. If it came down going to a hot party or doing an English paper, do the paper.
- Cut as much negativity from your life as possible. If your friends do nothing but ridicule you, evaluate their worth (yes, I'm serious) and then go from there. I got rid of a good 3/4 of my old friends in my AFC days. The other 1/4 support my new changes or have incentives like they can give me a ride if I need it.
- A real man makes his own luck.
- Analyze situations as they happen.
- There is more to life than women and beer. Have hobbies or interests in your life.
- Command respect from people or leave them because if you ask me, alpha males are made not born.
- Stray away from violence whenever possible.
- Having a silver tongue is crucial to society advancement.
- Be an interesting person.
- Always walk like you got a pair.
- Always look and feel your best when you're out in society. You never know what opportunities will be available.
- Rome was never built in a day. Whatever your goals are, odds are that they will take time to achieve. However the harder you work towards it, the faster it will come.
- Don't smoke cigarettes or weed and don't drink. Your game will be significantly better at parties and no, you're not cool if you get wasted. You will have just wasted money and you will feel like crap the next day.
My e-mail address is [email protected] if anyone wants to drop me a line.
Peace.
Anyway, I figured for my last post I'd tell a little tale of myself and how I felt I changed completely in just six months.
Before coming to this site I hit rock bottom with women. I hit rock bottom meaning that it was the end of HS and achieved absolutely nothing in terms of women. I got one phone number in 10th grade (she was 8.5-9) but was too afraid to call. In fact, I registered a week before prom. Everyone was talking about the magnificent "Senior Experience" and how they found out themselves, how their lives were changing, etc. Yet after a deep introspection late night, I realized I never achieved anything in my year except get a 27 on the ACT (which I could have done much better but I slacked off way too much in HS) and get accepted to my first choice college.
It seemed like every month my senior year I'd promise to change myself, get a girlfriend, etc. and did nothing. I'd say a few sentences to a few girls and got a very positive response back but that was it. At the end of the month I'd be dissatisfied with my situation. In fact, I kind of gave up on myself around the beginning of 2003. Before I was 235 lbs and in decent shape. I started working all the time, feeling sorry for myself, living on the PC, etc. and in two months I went up to 250 lbs! Anyway, it was one week before prom and I was looking at my fat body, my unshaven-for-five-days face, and how bad I felt. Something seemed a touch different though.
I genuinely wanted to change.
Around this time I got a link to this board and started to post. I got a good reception from the users here and began the healing process. I started to approach girls and got numbers quick. I started working out and started to feel good about myself. All of this culminated and about a month later from coming here, I was no longer a virgin. For the first 2/3 of the summer, I felt great. However I began to slack off. I went to the gym less. I ate crappy food again. My game, which used to be great was getting really dull. For the first 2-3 weeks of college, I was almost back at Square One.
At this time I began hitting the DJ Bible and basically going back to the basics (I still do from time to time if I'm ever bored) I started to do a little better. Then my life changed in late September when I was mugged at gunpoint. It changed my life. I think before I was an AFC. Now I was a DJ. I was no longer afraid of anything anymore. I think the only thing I was afraid of was going back to my old ways. I started to fine tune my game and the rest is history.
I'm still learning new tactics. I will probably still read the Bible from time to time in case I need something good to do. However I am going away for good now. I just have a few tips that I want to share with everyone here:
- You should never be afraid of anything in life, especially attractive women.
- You are the first and foremost priority in your life. If you're not, get your priorities straight.
- I recommend making at least one new friend a week. It will help you get word of great parties, meet with new people (especially females)
- Social proof is really overrated; if you friends are CBs, leave them behind. They will CB you at every chance, whether they know it or not.
- Take care of important matters first. If it came down going to a hot party or doing an English paper, do the paper.
- Cut as much negativity from your life as possible. If your friends do nothing but ridicule you, evaluate their worth (yes, I'm serious) and then go from there. I got rid of a good 3/4 of my old friends in my AFC days. The other 1/4 support my new changes or have incentives like they can give me a ride if I need it.
- A real man makes his own luck.
- Analyze situations as they happen.
- There is more to life than women and beer. Have hobbies or interests in your life.
- Command respect from people or leave them because if you ask me, alpha males are made not born.
- Stray away from violence whenever possible.
- Having a silver tongue is crucial to society advancement.
- Be an interesting person.
- Always walk like you got a pair.
- Always look and feel your best when you're out in society. You never know what opportunities will be available.
- Rome was never built in a day. Whatever your goals are, odds are that they will take time to achieve. However the harder you work towards it, the faster it will come.
- Don't smoke cigarettes or weed and don't drink. Your game will be significantly better at parties and no, you're not cool if you get wasted. You will have just wasted money and you will feel like crap the next day.
My e-mail address is [email protected] if anyone wants to drop me a line.
Peace.