I have this woman at work whom I want to DJ but since I am far from a DJ I need some help. This woman wears a wedding ring. Another Co-worker told me she said that she wears it to get rid of axxholes. I know that she is divorced I am not sure how long or if she really wears the ring still because she will not let go. So my question is how would I deal with her? Would she be different then other woman? Is the still wearing the wedding ring going to cause me problems? She is the friendly type not an attention ho as far as I have seen currently I have ignored here.

Yeah since we all know a-holes don't hit on married women. A-holes have morals.

Look at the words, 'she uses it to GET RID of axxholes'.

This implies the axxholes have already made an approach. So she probably says 'sorry' and shows the wedding ring, like Bruce Willis in Die Hard. BUT I'm willing to bet if someone she likes the look of chats her up, she will lose that ring will disappear faster than OJ Simpson at a KKK convention.

So give it a go - what have you got to lose!

Check what kind of DJ I have become. I am at work this morning standing outside smoking, and this woman comes to work and she walks up to me and says good morning to me, I said good morning. Thats where my thoughts of things to say ran out. So she then goes on the other side of the post that I was leaning on and stand there. So I was thinking is she trying to hide from me, why is she standing on the other side I can't even see her and she is 1 foot away from me. Yeah I am a DJ. My excuse is it was 6 A.M. ..... I mean what the HeII was I supose to talk about? If she was somebody I didn't want I would have things to say but I am sure my regular convo would put her off.

So you would just DJ her like any one else? I was told somethings about her today that makes me think I may need to work differently. She told her boss that she is a serious person and she hates when people think she is prissy because she is quite. She still wears her wedding ring to get rid of azzholes, which I noticed today she was not wearing it.

I don't know what it is you do for work but why would you want to add more stress to your day by DJing a fellow employee? Where's it going to go? If you're just looking for a lay then things at work will most definately be uncomfortable after that. If you're looking for a relationship imagine seeing her all day at work and then having to spending your free time with her as well.

From your last post sounds like you started your day feeling like a failure cuz you didn't know what to say. Not a good place to be mentally at work.

My advice. Forget her and focus on your job. Save the DJing for your free time.

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I don't know what it is you do for work but why would you want to add more stress to your day by DJing a fellow employee? Where's it going to go? If you're just looking for a lay then things at work will most definately be uncomfortable after that. If you're looking for a relationship imagine seeing her all day at work and then having to spending your free time with her as well.

From your last post sounds like you started your day feeling like a failure cuz you didn't know what to say. Not a good place to be mentally at work.

My advice. Forget her and focus on your job. Save the DJing for your free time.

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My job is a big Joke so I am not worried about it at ALL. But I am digging this chick and want to at least give it a shot.

Check what kind of DJ I have become. I am at work this morning standing outside smoking, and this woman comes to work and she walks up to me and says good morning to me, I said good morning. Thats where my thoughts of things to say ran out. So she then goes on the other side of the post that I was leaning on and stand there. So I was thinking is she trying to hide from me, why is she standing on the other side I can't even see her and she is 1 foot away from me. Yeah I am a DJ. My excuse is it was 6 A.M. ..... I mean what the HeII was I supose to talk about? If she was somebody I didn't want I would have things to say but I am sure my regular convo would put her off.

So you would just DJ her like any one else? I was told somethings about her today that makes me think I may need to work differently. She told her boss that she is a serious person and she hates when people think she is prissy because she is quite. She still wears her wedding ring to get rid of azzholes, which I noticed today she was not wearing it.

My job is a big Joke so I AM NOT worried about it at ALL. But I am digging this chick and want to at least give it a shot.

So what methods should I use on a serious chick????????

So what methods should I use on a serious chick????????

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Thanks I will try that.

Some women are just too serious. To me somebody who wears a wedding ring only to "get rid of azzholes" is not going to be a pleasant person. You need a friendly, fun and flexible girl. She sounds to me like a b1tch. None of us need to deal with that!

Why would you want to deal with this at work?

My advice... don't even start.

Dietzcoi

You're making all types of generalizations based on something as simple as a wedding ring. You'll never know what's really up with her until you have a conversation with her. From here you can read what is on her mind, and figure out if she even desires you to begin with. If she does, and you know her marriage situation, you can work on the dynamic in a such a way that she can indulge in her desire for you without becoming a threat to her current situation. You'll never know how to do this though; if you don't figure out her situation first.