Hi Guys,

Just need to have a vent.

Havent posted for a while but now I am pissed. I wont go into details about all the rejections just the last couple.

1 st girl I dated (very breifly) dumped me because I was comming on too strong.

2 nd girl didn't ask out because I know she had other important things on that have now come to an end. so while waiting patiently I "was" going to ask her for a date, however the only other single mate I have moved in quick and now I am the only single guy left.

Also I am sick of girls telling me that I am a good looking fun male. Who should have no problem getting a girlfriend, but I seem to have serious problems.

PS last girlfriend over a year ago was cheating on me.

so at the moment I am tired of having my heart and self confidence take such a beating.

I have a good job, work out and have hobbies but lets be real it would be nice to compliment this.

I know its not good to have your confidence dictated by chicks, but I question God because I feel like he is playing a joke on me.

Other people don't seem to have as much trouble as I do.

Rant Over

you stated...

"so at the moment I am tired of having my heart and self confidence take such a beating"

my reply...

well first off it is good that your heart takes a beating because if it stops beating u'll probably die

y do u give your heart - such a pecious gift - to unworthy women in the first place - what did she do to deserve it - o yeah thats right she is cute - makes sense to me

"Other people don't seem to have as much trouble as I do"

WOE IS ME!

get over it dude - girl problems r the least of mankinds problems look at world events and the suffering and look at all the drama going on in the USA

your ho problems r your own - b more selective with the woman u go after - look at values and her character as well as her looks and u r less likely to get burned!

WHOA!

take a look at yourself - nice job, hobbies, work out!

WTF? are there only these 2 girls in this world?! waaa waa, these 2 are taken, i guess that means i have to jerk it more from now on!

WRONG! read some more info here if u need confidence boost up, but seriously man, get out there and meet more people!

Thanks guys for the reply.

Pretty much agree with every thing you say.

I have dated many girls and read the bible heaps. It just gets frustrating because of the lack of success.

yes I know the last chick I had oneits (even though I know better). I just wasn't paying attention to it. Let my guard down for a second.

Thought I had a good shot at this one so my expectation was high. And maybe just wanted to feel some excitement for a change (although I dont feel to excited now)

Also why do we get these feelings if it serves no purpose but to screw us up?