Hello all,

I'm a newbie basically so dont laugh.

There's this girl I know who I'm interested in. I got to know her through my cousin. Met her just once or twice and I dint get the chance to get her number. So I got her number from my cousin.(Mobile no.)

So I sent her a message saying "guess who", followed by "take a wild guess" after she asked who it was.

Then told her it was me, after which she dint reply. At that, I sent a message, "still wondering ?" but still no reply.

So I sent a final message, "Fine I wont send any more messages" but still no reply. I dint send any more messages after that.

I'm really interested in this female, but I don't want to look desperate at the same time. Any advice on how to go about things from here ?

Please help guys. Thanks in advance.

Call me AFC or whatever, but I thought I could get some help here so I posted. I dont mean to be rude, but it could be that your apparent success with women has gone to your head.

So next time it would help if you posted something more useful than HAHAHA AFC and **** like that. No hard feelings.

Thanks anyway.

look, newbie, we get tired of all of your newbie questions, especially when we have a nifty little bible at the top of the forum,and in which the first friggin article is called kill that desperation!. now read, read and read.

here is the bible

wokay.

Originally posted by firestarter
wokay.

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hahahha, i like you!

Damn you guys are up-tight!lol!

Firestarter,waddup nigga! I SAY WADDUP!

First of all you shouldn't have gotten the phone number from somebody else for guys it's flaterring but for girls it's creepy or AFCish even if you hit it off.

Second of all(ly?)you should actually call a person to set up a date not message or e-mail or third party or nothing like that.


Ok,you see there will be probably no chance of you seeing her again i'm assuming so you have to move on. If you do see her then don't even bring up the fact that you texted her just ask her for her number.


If you never see her again and you still jonesing after that oochie-wally ,find a girl that looks exactly like her lay and then NEXT the **** out of her. Trust me. Believe me .

Thanks for the help guys. See the thing is she lives in another city. I just wanted to get in contact with her to start with. The chance of me arranging a date with her is less anyway cos i dont go there even every week.

It would be difficult for me to get her number any other way cos before atleast she used to come on msn but now not that often. So my cousin gave it to me saying she would be cool about it.

And I dint call cos it was kinda late in the night.

Thanks anyway.