To make a long story short, got LJBF'd by an ex-oneitus in the beginning of the year so I decided to go ganji on her and completely cut contact with her. Shortly thereafter, she got into an LTR with another guy.

In the past few months, she tried to get in contact with me a few times but I continued to ignore her - all this while she is in a LTR. My ganji policy with her shall remain to continue forever....

I ran into her today at a nightclub and casually said hello to her and then she grabs me and hugs me and says "what's with all the formality, give me a hug." She then mentioned that she's called, e-mailed, and SMS for the past few months and she's upset with me because I have ignored her - at that point, I didn't say much except smile at her!

As I am completely over her (hence the ganji/not going to be friends policy), I was hoping my ignoring her would hint that I don't want her to contact me - but she still continues to do so every once in a while.

Just wanted to get any of your takes on the situation? Thanks boys.

Like Gigalo said, Discussion.

Its good that your'e honest with yourself in deciding that you couldn't be "friends" with your ex. Your next step is to start dating again. Until your ex sees you with another girl in your arms, thus solidfying your own social value (according to her own value system) she will not respect your wishes to be left alone.

I bumped into a oneitus about 4 years ago..I NEXTED her big time..then when she saw me at a club..she was all over my nuts

I was no longer interested in her..so I reconnected with her as friends (she is a hottie ex stripper) ..she is still flaky as a friend..so I dont interact with her too often..but she just sent me this email

"Starman!! I have called you so many times! Where are you.

call me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 312-xxx-xxxx
Leticia"