Originally posted by 00Kevin
I agree with this. It is a good resource, but you can't rely on it or take it too seriously. I'm just wondering what to post in a profile. I guess i could just go to one of those stupid "what women want" sites and make myself sound like a god. lol. This wouldn't end up being a lie because we all know that women don't know what they want.
Go to this link and read the articles before you post a profile.
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Using Internet Personals
It will give you some insight into what women REALLY want. Internet personals aren't the easiest thing to write without sounding AFC. This is probably why so many DJ wanna-be's get frustrated because of their lack of success. I went through no less than 5 or so rewrites.
I'll tell you one thing, when you create a personal that works for you without you feeling that you have to 'act' a certain way that is unnatural, you will get fewer but more qualified responses. Your profile will intimidate women who have issues because you will sound 'too together' for a woman with unresolved issues.
You will probably get replies from female AFCs who send out replies blindly like male AFCs. If your DJ skills are in order you won't be taken in by their interest and won't even consider them (AFCs will go after ANYONE that fains any interests like hb6s and below).
Finally, be aware that the balance of the replies that you get will be from exceptional women who are use to intimidating most guys that are AFC. When they come across someone who won't fall head over heels with them, their IL usually goes up at least 20 points.
With the higher IL, they will try hard to land you, but don't go for the first one. Take your time and have a few (3-4) good possibilities at your disposal. Taking your time will increase each of their ILs. Plus, having a few to choose from will increase your confidence making you even more attractive to them which will in turn raise their IL even more. Get my drift?
I suggest taking a look at your online competition. Find their common threads (mostly clichés) and write something different.