“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ's and internet dating sites

00Kevin

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Are there any master DJ's here that are using internet dating sites?

if so what kind of profiles are you guys posting? I was thinking about using one of those sites to increase the number of HBs i'm dating at once. The only problem is that most of the pictures on those sites are just nasty.
 

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Yes, and that is exactly why it is best to meet women in person... it's alot less pressure to right a hottie and e-mail then to approach in the street, so it's easier to stick out, esp if you approach her with class.

I would personnally urge you to not use these dating sites if it can be avoided.
 

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Using the Net is the best way to qualify a massive amount of HBs while not spending a ton of time. The trick is that you have to understand how meeting women through the net works.

First and formost, HBs will SELDOM post their pictures!!!! Women in general get tons more responses on the net than guys, no matter how they look. Most of the responses are from AFCs.

HBs have already experienced this and thus pull their pictures from their profiles. They start by qualifying YOU by what you have in your profile. If you can keep their IL high, they will send you their pic.

There are other things you have to understand about using the net but once you learn, it's a goldmine!
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Using the Net is the best way to qualify a massive amount of HBs while not spending a ton of time. The trick is that you have to understand how meeting women through the net works.

First and formost, HBs will SELDOM post their pictures!!!! Women in general get tons more responses on the net than guys, no matter how they look. Most of the responses are from AFCs.

HBs have already experienced this and thus pull their pictures from their profiles. They start by qualifying YOU by what you have in your profile. If you can keep their IL high, they will send you their pic.

There are other things you have to understand about using the net but once you learn, it's a goldmine!
I agree with this. It is a good resource, but you can't rely on it or take it too seriously. I'm just wondering what to post in a profile. I guess i could just go to one of those stupid "what women want" sites and make myself sound like a god. lol. This wouldn't end up being a lie because we all know that women don't know what they want.
 
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I personally think using a dating site is weak as fawk. I don't consider anyone who uses this to be a DJ/player/ or anything else but a coward.

There are tons of fine assed women just waiting to be picked up if gutless snails get off their fat arses and step up like a "real man" would and claim what's his.

Another example of heads coming here and not actually doing the work...ie read the bible...do the boot camp...
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
I agree with this. It is a good resource, but you can't rely on it or take it too seriously. I'm just wondering what to post in a profile. I guess i could just go to one of those stupid "what women want" sites and make myself sound like a god. lol. This wouldn't end up being a lie because we all know that women don't know what they want.
Go to this link and read the articles before you post a profile.
.Using Internet Personals

It will give you some insight into what women REALLY want. Internet personals aren't the easiest thing to write without sounding AFC. This is probably why so many DJ wanna-be's get frustrated because of their lack of success. I went through no less than 5 or so rewrites.

I'll tell you one thing, when you create a personal that works for you without you feeling that you have to 'act' a certain way that is unnatural, you will get fewer but more qualified responses. Your profile will intimidate women who have issues because you will sound 'too together' for a woman with unresolved issues.

You will probably get replies from female AFCs who send out replies blindly like male AFCs. If your DJ skills are in order you won't be taken in by their interest and won't even consider them (AFCs will go after ANYONE that fains any interests like hb6s and below).

Finally, be aware that the balance of the replies that you get will be from exceptional women who are use to intimidating most guys that are AFC. When they come across someone who won't fall head over heels with them, their IL usually goes up at least 20 points.

With the higher IL, they will try hard to land you, but don't go for the first one. Take your time and have a few (3-4) good possibilities at your disposal. Taking your time will increase each of their ILs. Plus, having a few to choose from will increase your confidence making you even more attractive to them which will in turn raise their IL even more. Get my drift? ;)

I suggest taking a look at your online competition. Find their common threads (mostly clichés) and write something different.
 
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