iqqi
Master Don Juan
there are questions to ask.originally posted by legolas I have a question. How far would yo go to get what you want. Like if you knew persuasion techniques and stuff like that, would you use it all, or would you write it off as oneitis and leave it alone.
I'm stuck in my own situation. This girl I had high hopes for, sent me an email, responding to my request to go out with me, that she was going on a date that day. So I've been thinking about all the differnt persuasion techniques I know that I could use to destroy this other guy, if he even exists, in her mind of course
But have stopped myself because it would seem like going too far.
If you knew some of this stuff, would you hesitate to use it?
By the way, people persuade all the time, it's just that they don't want to accept that they do!
1. is she attracted to you? are there chemicals between you?
read here for an example of what i mean, and what I would do.
2. manipulation, the kind that you speak of, is not good if it creates an unnatural result, and you are not being yourself.
here is a thread i tried to discuss this issue on, feel free to read. but pook's reply here is better. look under the bold type "second objection" posted 10-22-2003 10:46 PM, if you are too lazy to read all of it.
legolas, it is only going too far if the questions above have wrong answers. comprende?
