“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Advice on the first e-mail, me to her?

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Hey Ashley,

Remember me - the guy you were flirting with in the library a few days back? Was just wondering what you were doing... I'm going to spend the weekend in school, working on projects with other people -- but I wanted to meet you for lunch - here or off campus if you want. Give me your phone # if you don't check your e-mail that often so that I can find you later.

See ya

Mark.


Thanks for any tips : )
 
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Sounds okay but I'd drop the flirting reference.

To me that sounds like you're a bit too eager to remind her that you think she likes you.
 
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Originally posted by thatguy
Hey Ashley,

Remember me - the guy you were flirting with in the library a few days back? Was just wondering what you were doing... I'm going to spend the weekend in school, working on projects with other people -- but I wanted to meet you for lunch - here or off campus if you want. Give me your phone # if you don't check your e-mail that often so that I can find you later.

See ya

Mark.


Thanks for any tips : )
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SH*T GOT DAM IT----OHHH HELLL NOOO!


1. you start weak " remember me...I was that geek blah blah.

2. you mention her flirting...so she was the power there huh...you should of been flirting.

3. what the fawk is dis: but I wanted to meet you for lunch - here or off campus if you want.

4. Not bad "Give me your phone #

5. But this : if you don't check your e-mail that often so that I can find you later. " OHH HELLL NO!@!

Ok! This shyt is lame and weak. Your a man babyboy. Not some symp begging for a date...that's her job! Rewrite this crap and change your whole tone:

Hey Ashley,

sup, it's me spong bob. I enjoyed talking to you at the library tue. I want to continue our convo. Send me your number and let's get together sat. for coco at starbuck. Is 9am ok or would 10am be better for you.

Sponge,
 
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Why would you e-mail her?.
Call her..... Oh yeah you don't have her # ...uhmm just fukk it all to hell then !!:D
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Write something like this instead:

Hey Assley

You know, I just remembered how I met some girl who just couldn't seem to get her eyes off me at the library. Now... that girl and I really had a great time, and man did she knew how to be flirty. Tell me Ashley... I just thought it would be fair for me to give her a chance to get to know me... doesn't that seem fair?

I really thought so, however, there is only one little knack for this to happen, in her sensual momento when we met, she just got her mind on... other things... so she didn't give me her number. Well, accidents do happen... and I have heard you know her... and when you talk to her... she'll probably be eager to have great time togheter with me and give me her number don't you think. ;)

Mark

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Hey Ashley,

Remember me - the guy you were flirting with in the library a few days back? Was just wondering what you were doing... I'm going to spend the weekend in school, working on projects with other people -- but I wanted to meet you for lunch - here or off campus if you want. Give me your phone # if you don't check your e-mail that often so that I can find you later.

See ya

Mark.
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Originally posted by thatguy
Hey Ashley,

Remember me - the guy you were flirting with in the library a few days back? Was just wondering what you were doing... I'm going to spend the weekend in school, working on projects with other people -- but I wanted to meet you for lunch - here or off campus if you want. Give me your phone # if you don't check your e-mail that often so that I can find you later.

See ya

Mark.


Thanks for any tips : )
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Hey...I am just wondering what ever happened? Did you get a date with her?
 
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