i mean, i am just wondering...cause i think that girls put a lot of emphasis on looks when first meeting someone...

im 6'3..about 230 lbs...so i got a bit of belly and lovehandles, but have lost about 45 lbs since the beginning of the summer and i have been much more successful (probably like 75% now...50% earlier) with girls, but it might be the new confidence........

all the girls i date say that they dont like 'ripped' guys...im thinkin thats a lie...

Well, I'm a skinny 190 pounds and yes, I wouldn't take everything girls say as a standard on attraction. I don't think there really is a standard it's just some people are better looking and acting than others. That's my take atleast.....

Originally posted by chrisjen17

all the girls i date say that they dont like 'ripped' guys...im thinkin thats a lie...

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That's the biggest load of **** since the turd I pushed out between classes this morning. Girls LOVE ripped guys. Girls LOVE ripped guys. Girls LOVE ripped guys. There, that should stick in your head now.

Originally posted by chrisjen17
i mean, i am just wondering...cause i think that girls put a lot of emphasis on looks when first meeting someone...

im 6'3..about 230 lbs...so i got a bit of belly and lovehandles, but have lost about 45 lbs since the beginning of the summer and i have been much more successful (probably like 75% now...50% earlier) with girls, but it might be the new confidence........

all the girls i date say that they dont like 'ripped' guys...im thinkin thats a lie...

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Yeah,

that is a lie. Women don't like really stupid muscle-heads, but a six-pack, oh! That get's women goin! Man, I'm just beginning to get some muscle sticking out (had to lose some gut by quitting eating carbs - what Nazi sadist invented this diet), not a 6 yet, but i'm between the 2 and the 4, and women are already taking notice. I'm just waiting for the magic six to come out... Other than that, you can suck in your gut in the meantime, I sucked mine in for about 2 years until I realized that sucking in your gut is not an exercise, even if you do it 16 hours a day.

On shape though, there is a post under Health and Fitness entitled "DJ's post your stats" where people write about the shape they're in.

i have got a little bit of work to do on myself. i have been trying to get into good shape by the start of summer by losing my belly. i am now almost 75kg, down 10-12kg a few months ago. i have noticed a bit of a change in behaviour from other people since i have lost this. i'm gonna try lose a few more kgs and i will have a flat stomach pretty much. Might be time to start using some weights then since i have got some. I also want to get some new clothes to wear as well but i am a bit short on cash. I have almost finished college and i will be able to get some extra work.