Hey, just out of curiosity, for those of you in LTRs, did you kiss on your first date?

I'm wondering if I take this girl out and I'm looking for more than just sex, would you kiss her on the 1st date or wait until the second one? I know some girls are more sensitive to this than others and might get turned off if you move too fast. I hate that sex-starved pervert image, and I try to avoid it at all costs. It seems to work pretty well for me too, since it creates an air of independence.

Ummmm...
I think you have a little wrong attitude here.
If the date goes well and you kiss you aren't pervert!
Some girls lose interest if you don't. They except it.
Women like horny men. Women love sex.
And kissing?
I think way more than us men.

Do what you want.
You go by your terms, remember?

No offence but I think a guy with 900+ posts should know this.


Stop thinking things like this.
Just get a girl, take her out, have fun, apply kino, be interested in her to have a good convo, and kiss/**** close.

It's you who you should concetrate and who is important.
If the girl doesn't really attract/interest you, then get some better chick.
If a girl seems to be unhappy that I kissed her on the first date I think she should go screw herself!

I hope I answered your guestion.
Stop thinking too much and take action!

Happy hunting
- Hot Ice

EDIT: I'd like to stress my words "If the date goes well", though.

I'm in an LTR, and yes, I kissed her on the first date.

I have found that kino during the first date is more influential than whether or not you kiss at the end. More than anything else, the kiss is going to be a significant IL gauge. I subscribe to Doc's System for first date kissing philosophy:

I kiss if I'm not convinced she has high IL. Here are the three outcomes that I get:
- If her IL is low, she will turn her cheek and I may then throw away her digits and not waste any more time on her.
- If her IL is high, it will show in how she kisses, and the kiss may raise her IL.
- If I already know her IL is sky high, not kissing her on the first date is not likely to hurt her IL and could raise her IL further.

I wasn't too sure about my girl's IL during our first date, so during our good-bye hug I lifted her chin with my hand and kissed her while I cupped her ass with my other hand. Shocked, she called me "aggressive" and has been hooked on me since.

if not the first date, usually by the 2nd at the latest...if still no kiss by date #3, that's when it's time to make a decision to either move on or waste your time on something that may never happen. some girls I've dated are only comfortable with a hug or whatever on the 1st date. these types usually warm up real nice on the 2nd outing in my experience.

1st date kiss here too. You should be able to tell her interest level even without the kiss though, but the type of kiss almost makes it certain. Weigh the entire meeting before you make any conclusions.

Becker,

If you're in no rush, then hold off. Wait until it feels natural for you. If there is enough chemistry to fuel an LTR then the kiss will flow without much effort. I got a BJ on the first date with my last LTR, but the one's before that I waited. It really depends on the girl, and if you feel the timing is off, then wait it out.

i NEXT unless we knock boots on the first date.

Thanks for the responses guys. See, my experience has been mixed, so it's difficult to say which way to do it, and there probably isn't a right or wrong way anyways.

I remember my 1st LTR I didn't french kiss the girl until like a week after we started to go out, which was a little too long, but she didn't dump me for it or lose interest or anything. If anything it made her even more eager to go farther.

I have also had instances where I kissed too early or moved too quickly in general and it didn't turn out too well.

The only reason for this post is that there's a girl right now that I may take out who I really want to make sure I get it right, so I want to know what others have experienced.

Sooner the better.

Sooner you fuk her the better too.