Analyzation of the DJ v 1.2
Wow, a revival to some old threads.
v 1.0 - http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=29598
v 1.1 - http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30053
I’m not going to revise what I have written down but basically to add more material that I have learned from about the 5-6 months since I made v 1.1.
1. The Art of Self
DJs should know that women are visual creatures, just like us. Many people here say that looks aren’t that important but yes, they are. That’s how you initally create attraction. If you see a hot girl, you look at her and you are instantly attracted! You don’t see a UG4 and say, “Wow, I bet she has a great personality!” No, you fool! The key to have optimal results is that I honestly recommend you improving yourself first before making serious efforts in the dating game.
As I said before, Djing is 1% women, 99% self. Imagine that you are your dream girl. All of a sudden you see yourself walk by. He is wearing a 3 year old Pantera shirt, has torn jeans, and dirty shoes. Can you see yourself being attracted to him? If not, then you are not where you want to be. There are a handful of DJ role models to base yourself off on. Lets pick out Nick Lachey. Yes, he was in a boy band but look at him. He is physically in great shape, has nice hair, but he also is a very hands on person. He isn’t really spoiled and he does a lot of stuff himself. I suggest watching Newlyweds on MTV. He is a good person to base yourself on. Another good example is Vin Diesel. His movies may not be A+ quality but pay attention to what he does. He’s confident, demands respect, and gets what he wants.
You have the potential to become a brilliant person. Take advantage of that potential. You can throw on $200 worth of nice clothing but if you look like a slob, no girl is going to want to know more about you. The reason why is because being fat is a sign of a weakness; they can’t take care of themselves. They cannot control what they eating so they are a flawed person.
Lift. Seriously. Do this for yourself. There is absolutely no downsides to lifting unless you are worried about getting stronger, faster, and better looking.
2. The Man With The Golden Tongue
You ever hear of someone who has a silver tongue? Forget him, you are better than them for you have a golden tongue. You are slick yet sincere. If a good opportunity arises, you seize the moment and make a name for yourself. Ok, lets say your tongue is maybe cheap aluminum in the scale of conversations. How should you improve?
Its easy. Be funny. Yes, everyone and there dog thinks they are comedians but few actually can make a large crowd laugh. Sarcasm is good…in small doses. DJs take advantage of funny situations but use too much sarcasm and you come off as negative; which is never a good thing. Watch Comedy Central. I think that if you are in a happy mood or the more you are exposed to comedy, the funnier you will be overall. Its also said that laughter is what opens a woman’s heart but the DJ is concerned more with making jokes for everyone (including himself), not just girls.
A deep tone. Yes, you need a strong masculine voice to project your feelings. You are a man…a man with testosterone. You should not be using a submissive girly voice. If you do, you are not a DJ but a chump. If you were given a high voice, life sucks for you but if you have a deep voice, don’t be feminine with it. A deep tone also includes being not necessarily loud but strong. A strong voice is definitely a good thing. It shows that you are confident enough for your comments to be heard by the masses.
3. DJ Dreams
The dreams of a true DJ is not to lay the hottest woman in the planet for his dreams are something more than just tales of an endless vagina supply. A DJ has ambition in life, he has goals. He does not care about doing just the bare minimum for that is not acceptable to the life of a real DJ. He has hobbies and activities that take precedence over women. Of course he spends some time being a DJ for he is a sexual being, not asexual. Yet he gets these women in his spare time, which should be pretty minimal when its all said and done. He does not devote huge chunks of his time for the pursuit of the poon because he will just be another puppet to women.
If you are a puppet currently, get some hobbies. Something that you enjoy. No, its not videogames. Computer use is acceptable I guess if you are programming games because you are achieving an actual product in the end. Although I’d personally go for something like cooking, rock climbing, skydiving, and the like. Activities that stress action because a DJ is a man of action. If you love what you are doing, you will get more confidence and more confidence never hurt anyone.
4. The Relationship Trap
Many times, before having sex with a girl, she is sweet and nice. After having sex, she begins to show more and more of her personality. This is where many AFCs and nice guys fall into the trap. She tries to suck you into her world. She wants you to basically be another extension of her. If your girl is not like this then please hold onto her because girls like her are pretty much the minority. The after sex relationship is what I like to call The Relationship Trap. She tries to trap you in the relationship. She promises more sex and since chumps base their lives on sex, they submit to her demands. The deeper you get into these relationship traps, the harder it is for you to get out of them.
A true DJ laughs at the woman who tries to force them into these traps of a woman dominated relationship. A true DJ does more than laughs, he puts her in check, and gets sex without falling into this trap. The woman is pleased with the results and the relationship is back in working order. However if the woman still does not like the relationship status, the DJ dumps her and moves on. He cuts off all contact with her. If she offers friends with benefits, take it but proceed with caution. Just as long as you do not attempt to form another relationship with her, it is fine. Most of the time, friends with benefits is never the ideal situation because at least one party wants more yet relationships that failed once before will inevitably fail again.
The DJ has been analyzed
Yes it has. The above concepts mentioned are the break down on what a DJ should do in its core. However you should be yourself. If you like painting, do that as your hobby because it is still an action oriented task. Personalize your Djing. You are an individual with your own wants and needs. Live your life because you only have one left; you may as well just do whatever you want to do at your discretion so you can die with a smile on your face as opposed to sad wondering of what could have been.
Wow, a revival to some old threads.
v 1.0 - http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=29598
v 1.1 - http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30053
I’m not going to revise what I have written down but basically to add more material that I have learned from about the 5-6 months since I made v 1.1.
1. The Art of Self
DJs should know that women are visual creatures, just like us. Many people here say that looks aren’t that important but yes, they are. That’s how you initally create attraction. If you see a hot girl, you look at her and you are instantly attracted! You don’t see a UG4 and say, “Wow, I bet she has a great personality!” No, you fool! The key to have optimal results is that I honestly recommend you improving yourself first before making serious efforts in the dating game.
As I said before, Djing is 1% women, 99% self. Imagine that you are your dream girl. All of a sudden you see yourself walk by. He is wearing a 3 year old Pantera shirt, has torn jeans, and dirty shoes. Can you see yourself being attracted to him? If not, then you are not where you want to be. There are a handful of DJ role models to base yourself off on. Lets pick out Nick Lachey. Yes, he was in a boy band but look at him. He is physically in great shape, has nice hair, but he also is a very hands on person. He isn’t really spoiled and he does a lot of stuff himself. I suggest watching Newlyweds on MTV. He is a good person to base yourself on. Another good example is Vin Diesel. His movies may not be A+ quality but pay attention to what he does. He’s confident, demands respect, and gets what he wants.
You have the potential to become a brilliant person. Take advantage of that potential. You can throw on $200 worth of nice clothing but if you look like a slob, no girl is going to want to know more about you. The reason why is because being fat is a sign of a weakness; they can’t take care of themselves. They cannot control what they eating so they are a flawed person.
Lift. Seriously. Do this for yourself. There is absolutely no downsides to lifting unless you are worried about getting stronger, faster, and better looking.
2. The Man With The Golden Tongue
You ever hear of someone who has a silver tongue? Forget him, you are better than them for you have a golden tongue. You are slick yet sincere. If a good opportunity arises, you seize the moment and make a name for yourself. Ok, lets say your tongue is maybe cheap aluminum in the scale of conversations. How should you improve?
Its easy. Be funny. Yes, everyone and there dog thinks they are comedians but few actually can make a large crowd laugh. Sarcasm is good…in small doses. DJs take advantage of funny situations but use too much sarcasm and you come off as negative; which is never a good thing. Watch Comedy Central. I think that if you are in a happy mood or the more you are exposed to comedy, the funnier you will be overall. Its also said that laughter is what opens a woman’s heart but the DJ is concerned more with making jokes for everyone (including himself), not just girls.
A deep tone. Yes, you need a strong masculine voice to project your feelings. You are a man…a man with testosterone. You should not be using a submissive girly voice. If you do, you are not a DJ but a chump. If you were given a high voice, life sucks for you but if you have a deep voice, don’t be feminine with it. A deep tone also includes being not necessarily loud but strong. A strong voice is definitely a good thing. It shows that you are confident enough for your comments to be heard by the masses.
3. DJ Dreams
The dreams of a true DJ is not to lay the hottest woman in the planet for his dreams are something more than just tales of an endless vagina supply. A DJ has ambition in life, he has goals. He does not care about doing just the bare minimum for that is not acceptable to the life of a real DJ. He has hobbies and activities that take precedence over women. Of course he spends some time being a DJ for he is a sexual being, not asexual. Yet he gets these women in his spare time, which should be pretty minimal when its all said and done. He does not devote huge chunks of his time for the pursuit of the poon because he will just be another puppet to women.
If you are a puppet currently, get some hobbies. Something that you enjoy. No, its not videogames. Computer use is acceptable I guess if you are programming games because you are achieving an actual product in the end. Although I’d personally go for something like cooking, rock climbing, skydiving, and the like. Activities that stress action because a DJ is a man of action. If you love what you are doing, you will get more confidence and more confidence never hurt anyone.
4. The Relationship Trap
Many times, before having sex with a girl, she is sweet and nice. After having sex, she begins to show more and more of her personality. This is where many AFCs and nice guys fall into the trap. She tries to suck you into her world. She wants you to basically be another extension of her. If your girl is not like this then please hold onto her because girls like her are pretty much the minority. The after sex relationship is what I like to call The Relationship Trap. She tries to trap you in the relationship. She promises more sex and since chumps base their lives on sex, they submit to her demands. The deeper you get into these relationship traps, the harder it is for you to get out of them.
A true DJ laughs at the woman who tries to force them into these traps of a woman dominated relationship. A true DJ does more than laughs, he puts her in check, and gets sex without falling into this trap. The woman is pleased with the results and the relationship is back in working order. However if the woman still does not like the relationship status, the DJ dumps her and moves on. He cuts off all contact with her. If she offers friends with benefits, take it but proceed with caution. Just as long as you do not attempt to form another relationship with her, it is fine. Most of the time, friends with benefits is never the ideal situation because at least one party wants more yet relationships that failed once before will inevitably fail again.
The DJ has been analyzed
Yes it has. The above concepts mentioned are the break down on what a DJ should do in its core. However you should be yourself. If you like painting, do that as your hobby because it is still an action oriented task. Personalize your Djing. You are an individual with your own wants and needs. Live your life because you only have one left; you may as well just do whatever you want to do at your discretion so you can die with a smile on your face as opposed to sad wondering of what could have been.
