“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Levels of relationships, and how they relate to women

TheInfamousCBear

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If you are aware of people, you should know that everyone you talk with/associate with isnt your best friend, and every girl you date or whatever isnt your wife or something...Heres how I look at the sh1t...These are the relationship tiers, in their designated order....

1. Best Friends...Lord, these are far and few...It usually takes years for these to be forged...Maybe both of you came up toghter (sp?) and the bullsh1t you went through kept you close...These are the people who you can depend on the most, you trust them the most, you help them with your problems, you have no problems compromising (sp?) for them, and they do the same for you...Basically these are the people who you apply the "bros before hoes rule" to...But the thing to remember is that they have to feel the same for you...If the sh1t is one sided, you arnt best friends, you are...

2. Associates....These are the people who are friends with, you might hang out with outside of school/work/etc., but thats about it...These people may or may not be down for you like your best friends are...If you stay with them over the years, they might get up into the best friend catagory...Because they might not be 100% down for you, you sure as he11 dont tell them personal sh1t, and you dont have 100% trust in them...And if they do something bad to you, you should have no reservations about leaving them behind....

3. Women you date/fukk/etc....Whooo boy....Treat them lower than associates...At the point in which you meet them, you dont know where their loyalty lies, so you damn sure dont tell them personal stuff, and I myself would advise agaisnt (sp?) compromising with them because of that fact...Keep convo's light and short, and use action more than anything else...But we all know how to handle women right?...;) Thats what this site is for...lol..If shes good to you, she might move up the ladder, but thats a big If...

4. Coworkers, others, etc.....These people are only talked to cause you work with them or whatever...You or that other person might not care to move up in the ranks of relationship status...They might be some kind of connection, like getting you in a club for free or something, but besides that, you wouldnt even speak...You can say your friend's/associate's girl would count, cause if she wasnt with him, you wouldnt be talking to her, and when she leaves him, you wont be talking to her...

So in short, it goes like this...

1. Best friends
2. Associates
3. Women
4. Coworkers/etc

Dont forget it....
 

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Heres some more...

How do you see if you want to advance people up or down the ladder? Easy, you nip bullsh1t in the bud...When you meet new people, they are analyzing you, and if you give in they will walk all over you, and it will be standard in the relationship, they will be sh1t testing you, and if you fail, you lose...If you stand your ground, you are setting the rules...Ever hear the saying "If you love something, let it go, if it comes back, its yours"? Well the same sh1t here...Lets look at this...

Person A and Person B have met each other, they are becoming friends and sh1t...Person A says something that Person B doesnt like, like he makes fun of him or something...

Now if Person B laughs it off and doesnt say sh1t, or he doesnt show that the comment made him upset, he is Person A's b1tch, cause he figures he wont do anything and he can sh1t on him as much as he wants...And the longer they stay friends, the less respect he will get and the sh1ttings will get worse...

Now if Person B does something to show he doesnt like the comment, it will show Person A that he has respect for himself and one of 2 things will happen...

Person A will leave cause hes angry about the retaliation or he will try to rectify (sp?) the situation...If they leave, fukk em, if they stay, you might have a keeper....You might have to do this once, numerous times or all the time...But you have to think this way with EVERYONE...

I know most of this is common sense to most people, but you never know who might be putting themselves through he11 because they dont know...
 
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