OK~ !

I know we are all here to learn from eachother on how to get the to HBs hooked on us like drugs to gain control and the uperhand but..

Recently I've found that some of them tend to get hooked too darn quick.. It's leading me to believe that there might actualy be more desperate women outhere than men, but they just simply know how to mask it better.

Needless to say in the past month I've had at least 3 HB8 > fighting for my attention. And 2 of them are starting to make me feel a little uncomfortable.

One of them called me 3 times within an hour before I picked her up for a date just to talk. Then after I droped her off I'm on my way home and she still wants to talk. I get home and I'm trying to go to bed and she's upset that I'm rushing her off the phone. Now keep in mind I've only know this girl for only about ONE WEEK.

The other one who is in college, has been trying to get me to invite her over to my place for the past two weeks RELENTLESSLY and constantly wants to know when I'm available.

since I've already given up on TRYING to gain manipulative DJ control but they are still comming on strong.ISN'T THERE A DANGER IN ALLOWING THESE WOMEN TO HANG ON KNOWING THAT I'M ONLY THERE FOR SELFISH REASONS.
I mean one is CLEARLY LOOKING FOR MARRIAGE, which I'm not ready for yet. The other is looking for a serious relationship but I don't really date white girls.

I'm basicaly concerned about getting my BMW keyed, egged like it has in the past, simply because these women don't understand that I'M NOT LOOKING FOR LOVE..

Okey, so you decrease your comprehensive insurance deductible to $100 and keep on DJing. A vandalism claim does not increase your insurance rates, so you just file a claim, pay $100 and it's fixed.

I wouldn't let the fear of some chick's rage interfere with my game - and I don't think you're in any kind of danger.

Oh, I've been known to let girls know up front that I'm not looking for any kind of relationship and that I just am having fun for now. I've never had any one of them come back and egg my car or do anything vindictive.

Have fun!

CB

Hey, mindnsoul, what user name did you go by before? You sound like your game is tight! You the same guy who don't get serious wit white chics, right? Are you black?

"Recently I've found that some of them tend to get hooked too darn quick.. It's leading me to believe that there might actualy be more desperate women outhere than men, but they just simply know how to mask it better."

I'll tell you what's up. Either these girls are completey devoid of integrity or you're just not being straight with them. I believe it's the latter.

Maybe your intentions are to just have fun and keep it light, but I'm betting you're giving off relationship signals to these woman. Maybe you realize it, maybe you don't. Though, I find that most men DO realize it, and it's a manipulation tactic because they don't know any other way of communicating with women. They can't bring themselves to tell the women what they REALLY want. The men are too scared to lay it on the line, fearing the woman will leave them.

Make your intentions clear and do it with class. Most people will understand. There are some wacko's out there, but even they, when treated with respect, will usually be cool.

you're rigth. I'm missleading them into thinking there's potential for relationship.

Cause that's all they want..