ive been flirting with this girl for the last 4 weeks and i finally hooked up with her at a club 2 weeks ago. I got the balls to to ask her over for some wine and dinner at my place. She gladdly accepted.

I had the wine, i had ordered out food b/c i was too tired to cook and of course had the massage oils ready for whatever was to come.

She came over dressed very seductivley as i instructed her to.
I had the candles placed in strategic locations to enhance the atmosphere. She absolutley loved the candles, she said she was pretty much speechles about it. We had some wine while i was *cooking* the dinner. She was late about 15 mins b/c she was stuck on the freeway with a dead battery which she told me over the span of 30 mins as i nodded and smiled.

Dinner was finally served. I challanged to her to use chopsticks which she had never used before. I took a pair out and showed her how to use, lot of kino at this point. She even tried to feed me a piece of chicken with it and almost dropped it on my pants. I mirrored her gesture. We had very good rapport during the dinner about various topics from classes, her family and various foods from italy. I had no trouble figuring out what to talk about.
Dessert came and went. I had a pint of Ben and Jerrys, which so happen to be her favorite. We sat on the love seat while we ate.

I had my IPOD hooked up to the stereo and she was curious to see what it was. she couldnt figure out how to use it and i saw this as a perfect opportunity for some C&F. I eventually took her hand and showed her how to use it.

I also mentioned previous to the date that i had a suprise for her. I finally told her that i was practicing the art offull body massage and she wanted to try it. But she wouldnt take off her shirt, so i tired to comfort her and convince her it would be the only way she could feel the entire massage. She agreed to lift up half of her shirt so i had to work with that. After about 15 mins, i teased her that "session 1 was over for tonight and she would have to come back next time for session 2". From the look of her face it seemed that she was very happy and relaxed from it. I told her to stand up and then at that point, i look at her in the eye for about 5 seonds and move in for the kiss. SCORE ONE FOR KILLERASP!!!.

She then offers to give me massage and i gladly accept. she straddled my rear to give me the massage. as she was doing it, i pretended to be moaning and she laughed as i did that.

Eventually, the night had to end but she didnt leave without giving me a kiss.

UPDATE: She imed me today telling me: "i had a really great time...honestly...it was beautiful...everything was set up so perfectly..."

Damn, id say it was good first date. what do you guys think?

I think its great!
Im very proud of you!
You got a non-slut! (until now)

Gee, if I was gay, I'd be asking when can I come over?

Keep up the good work.

Good work. We'll expect a lay report from your next date.

Brought a smile to my face, good man

Originally posted by SamePendo

You got a non-slut! (until now)

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HAHAHAHHAHAHAH

Killerasp: Hey bro I'm totally proud of you! Excellent Excellent job!!! But why the elaborate setup?? Did I miss something in a previous post about this girl? I mean what you have done is 2 things. I'll give you the good news first.


-You did an excellent job with the dinner/massage idea, set up the place perfectly etc.

However now you've set up an expectation in this girl's mind!! She'll except elaborate hang out sessions ALL THE TIME!!! You'll have to keep this magic act up because you've set the initial bar pretty high.

Not trying to bring you down, just trying to warn you. Feel good about yourself bro...



PIMP

i have a friend on the boards and he is close friend of mine and a rather good in the DJ art. he really suggested that i do this and i took his advice to heart. it took some work, but it did leave her with a damn good night.

i mean, the best impression is the first impression as they all say.

Bro but do you understand what I'm trying to tell you????

Your freakin' 20 years old!! Why are you acting like your a 35 year old massage expert?

As much as it doesn't seem like it, I'm really trying to protect you and your wallet from getting burned. I know everything seems great and peachy right now, but its early. Don't make me say "I told you so in a few weeks." You've been warned, I hope to God I'm wrong, but most the time I'm not.



PIMP

Glad it worked out for you.

but ur trying too hard to impress her with ur gimmicks.
instead try to charm her with ur personality.

find the balance b/t the 2

great job

however this shouldnt be a first date bro

here is why:
1-
by doing all this elaborate stuff you are puting her on a pedestal and making her think, "wow, this guy must ReALLY LIKE ME!"... bam your not a challenge anymore
2-
as pimp said, she might expect you to have great dates like this all the time, which (if your a normal guy, you would get tired of going through all this trouble everytime you hang out), and since the first date was so great, everything else might not seem as fun or as good as it was

personally, i think if you would have done this setup for the 2nd or 3rd date, i think you would have easily scored a lay, her panties musta been soaked when you busted out those candles... THEN A MASSAGE!

other than that good work bro, but keep the initial dates light, then put something like this on her and she will be begging for more

Congrats on your first date, bro. It sounds pretty hardcore for a date. I used to do elaborate dates too, but now I prefer to bring girls to hangout with my friends and I at social gatherings, such as parties or bars...or to tag-along to do things that I already planned on doing.