hi fellow djs, ive got this set of beliefs of successful guys from the double your dating cd series. and other sites. im trying to incorporate each of them, you have to believe them with no doubt at all.
if u doubt then it wont work. and apply them in all areas of your life.

this is not only about women, its about everything.

1) i am unselfconscious and i could care less what people think of
me.
2) i let go, im indifferent to the outcome of all situations in my life.
3) im a catch and being with me is the best choice any woman can
make. ( if you dont believe this, make sure u do.)
4) i am a strong confident communicator, i communicate well
5)i judge while not being affected by others judgement.
6)im comfortable in my own skin.
7) im comfortable and in control around women.
8)i am in control of my emotional self, outside events dont
distabilize me.
9)i am not needy, i keep my power for me.
10) i think sex is great, i have no hang ups about it, im comfortable with my views.
11) i can hold back when i choose and delay gratification,
i can control myself and i can wait
12) i dont tolerate disrespect of myself, my time, and my property.
13) i make no excuses for my desires as a man, i move through this world without apology.
14) i am not impressed by ******d symbols of money and status
15)i might fall for a woman, but i dont tell her early on and i dont let it slip indirectly.
16)i dont let women use looks and sexual power to take advantage no special priviledges.
17) I DESERVE, I HAVE PERMISION I CAN HOLD AN EXEPTIONAL WOMAN
18) i am a cause in the world, not an effect, i make things happen
19) i need nothing to make me happy, and ill walk away if im not getting what i need. i have all the happyness in my reality
20) i can deal with any test a woman throws at me, in fact its usually kind of cute.
21) i undestand the culture, i get it, cosmo, mtv, music style
22) I LIVE MY REALITY, YOU ARE A GUEST
23) I believe in the winning outcome of all situations in my life
24) whatever happens to me, given any situation, i can handle it, and enjoy it.

These are great beliefs. One improvement would be to eliminate some of the "don'ts" in the list. Instead of saying,"I don't tolerate disrespect", what happens in your subconscious is that you only pay attention to "tolerate disrespect."

It's like saying to yourself..'don't think of the color blue, don't think of the color blue...don't think of the color blue"? What happens? You think of blue.