Now that i have ur attention. I will try to keep this short. Ok heres the scenerio, I met this really cool girl from Cali in my school and we had a blast at a Club. So anywayz, she got me all jealous cuz shes been acting the same way with me as with them. Then I called her a B**ch (at least not a Hoe but anywayz i thought she would be cool with it cuz we have hung out on numerous occasions after that evening at the Club well anyways i was drunk this past thursday and we was chillin' in a club with two of my friends...both guyz unfortunately then i somehow pushed her not that hard but just a little too hard for her. Thank god she wasn't thrown to the ground. But N E Wayz she got pissed off at me and when we chilled after that she seemed not too receptive of my advances like the first nite at the club. So i then heard from my friend that she wanted an apology...so i gave her one...we hugged and it seemed really casual and cool but now its like i saw her two dayz ago at a party and we didn't really talk that much at least i was still feeling a little awkward. But i just wanted to set this thing straight with a girl, i guess i have put up my barriers with this girl too strong and defended myself too early when i don't even know this girl all well to be callin' her a *****. But i think she really cared about this whole situation between us by tellin' my friend that all she wanted was an apology. So whats next with this girl....i don't think i played my game rite by pushing her but hey i heard that some girls love that shiet. So how do yall think about this situation? Do I still have a shot at gettin' with this girl meaning a relationship not a booty call or anything of that nature. I really wanna get wit her because she is rare around here...her whole style is really givin' me a good vibe and i know that i am having a mild infatuation with her. Where to from here? I think shes definitely a keeper.


I guess it wasn't as short as i intended it to be...but i was tryin' to include everything that was in perspective about my situation.


Dj Vicious

Seems like she's done for now. Don't be apologitic with her and you'll have a better chance for sure. Never apologize for an honest mistake. Never give up your manliness.

Man this site is going to hell. You call a girl you barely know a ***** AND push her and you expect her to still be into you? And then the only advice you get is to not apologize and "be a man"? I know this site is getting younger and younger but daymnnnn, are you young guys really that callous? Look, you screwed up. If I was her I'd never talk to you again. Next time try not calling a girl you hardly know names and avoid unpleasant physical contact and try treating her like a lady-good luck.

I echo the words of echo1212.

Uhhhh, say what? Echo is so right here. You treat a girl you barely know like **** and still expect her to want you? Twilight zone stuff if you ask me.

I really wish people would start posting their age and the age of the girl(s) they pursue. That way I could understand where everyone is coming from. Better yet, if someone is in high school, then please, for the love of god, post in the HIGH SCHOOL forum.