Hi
Friends
I have just read this forum for a couple of months. I have read about ****y And Funny and NLP, and I used them with some results, nevertheless I have some doubts, I am confused. It seems that CAF and NLP are contrary, I mean, while CAF is to disrespect girls in a funny way, NLP is to go to their fantasies, dont see a clear relation. Well, I am confused, I would like to know if CAF and NLP can be used in the same time, or CAF is just for picking up, CAF is just for pretty girls and NLP for the others? I would like to hear your comment guys.
Giovanni

Well, its kind of complicated to explain at its full. But, it comes to this.
With NLP you become what she wants to see, you go in a semi-submissive way, just to say. You morph everything, to make her see what she wants to see.
With C&F you go in a much more manly way (according to my humble opinion). You dont become what she wants to see, but you are who you truly are (a man who gives a rat ass if she likes you or not, you have millions of other women to after, not just her).
NLP is for Short things like One night stands and similar.
****y and funny is to find someone who likes you for your true self (a DJ).


You can mix up some NLP with C&F, but not at its entirety.

Understand that being ****y does not mean disrespecting a woman. If you do that enough you will be labeled an @sshole. Lean more so toward being confident, you will have less of a chance of pissing off someone.

As for NLP, it can be used for any situation be it long or short term. In seduction it is used to ease the defenses of the other person and to associate yourself with pleasant feelings she has.

NLP is even more effective when used on yourself to achieve better results in your endeavors. Motivational speaker Anthony Robbin's speeches are based on the methodology of NLP. He was actually one of the first speakers certified in NLP in the mid 80's.

That topic is beyond the scope a single thread but you do have basic misconceptions. First, C&F is not disrespectful, it is more like being boastful and alpha except disarming her objection to it with laughter.

There is no relation between C&F and NLP except that they both can create attraction.

Use C&F to create attraction. Make her LAUGH! You CAN insult her a little as long as its FUNNY!

NLP is great for after you know she is attracted. You use this to build trust and make her feel closer to you.

I personally use both whenever the situation arises. It all depends on her reactions. There is no other answer for you other than to keep tryin this stuff out in the field.

Have fun!