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iqqi

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hey yall. need some tips, some advice.

suppose a girl just began to have sexual relations in her new romance. i'm takin about i put it on him to the point where i have turned myself out heehee...oh, um, anyways. some of you may already know this.

BUT i want to keep this "in general", so leaving out ALL that you may already know...

the sex is great. truuust me, that is covered. but i don't want it to consume all else, so what should i do/shouldn't i do to wrap him around my finger? (and please no flaming, cuz i'm just trying to be like you, just in reverse...) what should i be doing, not be doing, from your POV?

please help a girl out.
 

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Let me get this straight....you are beyond
the point where you would simply want the guy to have interest in you but you want to go so far as to be able to control him?

I think most guys around here are trying to simply get more women interested in them on a consistent basis. You may be more ambitious than the lot of us or maybe you are trying to step it up in the game.

Anyway, I can understand trying to help you get a guy interested in you but more than anything, I want to protect a man from getting wrapped around a woman's finger.

We try to make DJs around here, not puppets. We want to protect those poor souls not throw them into the lion's pit.

Just like us but in reverse? That is funny. But you meant that to be funny, right?

I can imagine two opposing sports team going for championship and someone on the opposing team asking the guy on the other team:

Opposing guy: " Man, can you tell me how I can dominate your teammate? I just want to win like you but in reverse."

Other player: "Huh? I can give you tips on how to be a better over all player but I won't tell you how to dominate my teammate."

BTW, this is not a flame....just pointing out how strange that sounds around here.
 

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Not really sure what you are asking. Do you want him wrapped around your finger? Or not?

Is he playing hard to get with you like a DJ? Or is he an AFC and you are really trying to mess with his head?

I haven't read any of the background but I'll assume that he's playing hard to get and you sincerely like him.

If the sex is good then he's probably already wrapped around your finger.

If you really want to flip his lid then one day when he's watching a hockey game. Wait till the 1st period is over then f*ck him silly. As soon as your done and the game is starting again. Jump up to the kitchen and make him a really kickass sandwich and bring him a beer. Repeat after the 2nd period.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by Slickster
Not really sure what you are asking. Do you want him wrapped around your finger? Or not?

Is he playing hard to get with you like a DJ? Or is he an AFC and you are really trying to mess with his head?

I haven't read any of the background but I'll assume that he's playing hard to get and you sincerely like him.

If the sex is good then he's probably already wrapped around your finger.

If you really want to flip his lid then one day when he's watching a hockey game. Wait till the 1st period is over then f*ck him silly. As soon as your done and the game is starting again. Jump up to the kitchen and make him a really kickass sandwich and bring him a beer. Repeat after the 2nd period.

You may also want to try massaging his feet after you and he had a long day of work and have dinner cooked for him by the time he gets home. And don't underestimate waking him up in the middle of the night with some bomb @$$ he@d. Damn, Slickster, why are we exposing these traps, man?
 

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Originally posted by Slickster
Not really sure what you are asking. Do you want him wrapped around your finger? Or not?

Is he playing hard to get with you like a DJ? Or is he an AFC and you are really trying to mess with his head?

I haven't read any of the background but I'll assume that he's playing hard to get and you sincerely like him.

If the sex is good then he's probably already wrapped around your finger.

If you really want to flip his lid then one day when he's watching a hockey game. Wait till the 1st period is over then f*ck him silly. As soon as your done and the game is starting again. Jump up to the kitchen and make him a really kickass sandwich and bring him a beer. Repeat after the 2nd period.
Christ, that is like a dream come true. Lucky bastard I say, if he gets that.
 

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hahhaahahahahah .
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anyways, i meant wrapped around my finger in a gooood way. never mind. i guess i had that coming. whatever. i'll just go by the bible and pretend he's a girl.

it was a dumb question. but i'm really dumb right now! i think i'm turning into an AFC it was a dumb question made in desperation.

going to bible...

anyways, smart asses who are so concerned about said boy, now i am going to go fcuk up some poor unsuspecting AFC's, ten for every "cook, clean, massage, get beer" comment.

hahahahahahah!
 

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Originally posted by iqqi
hahhaahahahahah .
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anyways, i meant wrapped around my finger in a gooood way. never mind. i guess i had that coming. whatever. i'll just go by the bible and pretend he's a girl.

it was a dumb question. but i'm really dumb right now! i think i'm turning into an AFC it was a dumb question made in desperation.

going to bible...

anyways, smart asses who are so concerned about said boy, now i am going to go fcuk up some poor unsuspecting AFC's, ten for every "cook, clean, massage, get beer" comment.

hahahahahahah!

The best way to do this is to treat him like the guy above then leave him. Trust me.
 
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