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ive been haning out with hb 8 for the 4 weekends (didnt hang out 3rd weekend) and IL is moderate (this is the hardest chick to read). by hanging out i mean go to parties etc

she has 2 friends (girls) that are glued to her at the hip (i.e. very hard to get her alone for more than 10 mins.. very weird)

but basically, rather than going into detail, this chick thinks shes too good for everyone (i.e. normal looking guys hit on her and she comes to me saying eww that guy was ugly etc... this could be b/c she likes me, i dunno) and she doesnt seem that into kino... i need to apply A LOT MORE, i know this

but the last party we were at (saturday) i asked her if shed give me/my 3 friends a ride home (she was with her other friend) and she said yes... comes to get me when shes ready to leave asking if i still needed a ride, i say yes, we leave... she is intercepted by 2 other chicks (hb8 and her friend didnt know these 2 girls and met them at the party that night, and one was holding hands with my HB8's friend and i saw the other 2 chicks like grabbing HB 8 and her friend's ace in the party... YES THEY WERE BEING HIT ON BY LESBIANS! and the lesbians would flash me weird looks when i was talking to hb8 and her friend... very weird) but anyways i see this and talk to my friends outside, and when i look back i see HB8 drive off (not with lesbians) and i AM PISSED

she calls me and asks if i still needed a ride and i kinda go off on her saying WTF HAPPENED; how can u just leave me; etc... and shes like sry do you want me to come back and get you, i say forget it, i will talk to you when we are both sober (i was wasted, she was drunk.. but apparently could drive)

i will never take this chick to another party but am thinking of asking her out on a date... but should i even ask her? or should i wait till she calls me?

what would u do in my shoes?

PLZ HELP

You are kidding about what to do in this situation, right? Please tell me you are, man.

Pros:

1.) She hung out with you for a few weekends

2). She is hot


Cons/suspect:

1). She left you at the party after you specifically asked her for a ride.

2). She is not into kino.

3). She is glued to the hip with her female friends.

4). She thinks she is too good for anyone ( doesn't seem too interested in men).

Understand that most women who are with men that they are interested in, love when they are approached by other men in that person's presence. They like to show you that they are well-desired by other males.

Originally posted by spanky
You are kidding about what to do in this situation, right? Please tell me you are, man.

Pros:

1.) She hung out with you for a few weekends

2). She is hot


Cons/suspect:

1). She left you at the party after you specifically asked her for a ride.

2). She is not into kino.

3). She is glued to the hip with her female friends.

4). She thinks she is too good for anyone ( doesn't seem too interested in men).

Understand that most women who are with men that they are interested in, love when they are approached by other men in that person's presence. They like to show you that they are well-desired by other males.

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i know you think i should next this chick... i know

but
1-she is really hot (hb8 are VERY RARE in my book, and i go to a HUGE campus... i have high standards)
2- i just want her for messing around and some good experience with talking to girls and stuff like that

i will go after other girls (this is a given), and she has seen me talk to tons of girls in her presence (even hardcore grinding with another chick... maybe not the smartest thing but o well) so i think she may be playing hard to get b/c i have kinda been mean to her and done this so blantantly with girls that she might be trying to make a point that i cant just do what i want around her and she will be all over me (STUPID B1TCH! who does she think she is lol )

so based on that, now what do you think? or i should still next her... even though i WONT NEXT her just yet since im planning on asking her out on a date 9no more parties) and making my move and if she denies it... then its NEXT

Well it seems as if you may be trying to justify clinging to her but experience is the best teacher, so I understand you keeping her around to get more experience with chics.

Remember, especially in this case, if you do not keep the above pros and cons in your mind constitutively while trying to gain more experience through her or try to date other women while messing aorund with her, you run a high risk of falling for her hard. This will not be good for obvious reasons one being that she does not seem to be interested in you in a sexual way.

She has already claimed 3 out of your past 4 weekends. That would not be bad if she was giving "something" in return.

Experience is important but watch yourself and know when to back off a bit. Your ability to back off need to be very sharp in this situation. Use it wisely.

You said this girl is:

1. Stuck up.

2. A *****.

3. She dissed you.

I say she is:

1. completely not interested in you.

So WHY do you want to date this girl?? Because she's hot? No offense, but there are lots of hot girls all around who are easier to get and not stuck up *****es.


Clearly she is more trouble than she's worth. Yet you are drawn to her. Why? My guess is because you're one of those guys who "likes a challenge". Interpreted: You are a guy who lets his ego rule his actions. You are so hung up on winning the "challenge", that you can't see that you have no chance with this girl. She's already categorized you into the pile of guys she WON'T fvck.

Your time is better spent elsewhere.

Jake

White Hype: What up bro, haven't talked to you in a while, because this site has been so fukin' slow lately.


Anyway, lets look at this logically.

You've hung out with her a parties 3 times outta 4 weeks. I'm sorry to tell you this, but if nothing has happened by now, it ain't EVER gonna happen. You guys haven't even kissed or anything yet, that's definitely not a good sign. And who are you trying to kid!! All girls like a challenge and the more you play the game, the more they become intrigued by you. You seem to be playing the game and she is still not budging.

On top of that she's already violated to BIG RULES in deteriming her interest level:


NO KINO-This is not good!! If a girl is not comfortable enough with you to let you touch her anywhere after a month, then she is not into you.


She LEFT YOU!!-Don't you think if she really liked you, she would have waited for you before she took off or even told her friends that she's going to take you home first?? I dunno why your holding on to this dumb byatch. There are SO MANY hot girls roaming college campuses. She obiviously has the aura aobut being too good for anyone and furthermore, she sounds like she has sometime of psychological problem if she's that repulsed by average guy's that approach her. NEXT NEXT NEXT!!

Remember bro, Alpha Males know when to cut their losses and not hold on. Don't try to play tricks on your DJ intution and convince yourself to hold on to this girl. It ain't worth it. She doesn't respect you, she only cares about herself.




PIMP

Cmon dude.. she punked you. She didn't think very much of you to pull that sh*t. Biatches like her, really need a wake up call. Like, 'F*ck you, you ugly b*tch! I can't believe an ugly b*tch punked me!'

Your reply sounds kinda whiny..."How could you just leave me there??"

I would've tried a different angle.


*ring*
You: "Forget something?"
Her: "I'm sorry I left you...do you still need a ride?"
You (C&F): "You BETTER get your ass back here and give me a ride."
Her: "F**k you, I had to (whatever)"
You: "So are you on your way back right now?"

Then she either comes back and gives you the ride, or blows you off, in which case, you just laugh, say "whatever", and hang up.

1. that cu*nt left you! And you want to WHAT? Ohhh HELL NO!
2. The bytch left you bro. I can't get over that. So what if she called...she was obviously hoping you'd punk out and say no.
3. And you want to ask her on a what? HELL NO! Is this a real post Hype or are you pulling our legs. I do not believe someone who comes to this site and has learned all this game would even accept this.
4. Just cause she is a WHAT...HB who gives a f*uck. She is still a bytch! She need's to be sh*tted on. I still can't believe you would want to date her after she left you. This blows me away...after reading your posts. You always sounded too cool to symp out like this.

5. Remember you never get tied to one ho just cause she is fine. She will sense that and punk you out.

6. The way you start something is the way it will end. You started getting punked out and it will only get worse. You will end up on here every week posting your complaints.

7. Stand up to the ho and be a man bruh. That is the only way she will ever respect you.

8. So what she is an 8. She isnt' a 10. And nobody is that fine to make it worth this kinda crap. You guys with your numbering system of hb crack me up. What is an 8 to one is a 5 to another...it's all in who is judging. There are no 8's 7's ect..ect...it depends on the person's taste.

9. If you found one you can and will find another.

points taken guys... i needed that

but let me clairify the situation. shes the shy girl with little experience whos only comfortable around her friends. im fairly certain i COULD HAVE kissed her but something always came up (i.e her dam friends showed up, **** blocked by lesbians, etc) but i just didnt follow through (the kino wasnt that bad just not as much as im used to i.e. she did grab my a$$)
heres the perfect example of her: i sat down on a couch and told her to sit by me and she sits really close (there was a lot of room on the couch) and her entire body is touching me... then i swear... not 5 mins later, her friend sits down next to her and hb8 immediately moves over a little away from me.


good point about her leaving and calling just to be "nice" about asking if i still needed a ride.

about what i said to her on the phone, i was really drunk (bad move but i called her earlier and i didnt think shed be coming and there werent any HB's around so i just decided to drink with my friends and have a good time etc) and so was she... but who cares what she thinks

thx for all the advice i was looking at this thing the wrong way.

I WILL NOT CALL THIS SKANK BACK she has earned her the nexted card

ill go out and pull a hotter chick that isnt a b1tch like this one... btw this chick had THE WORST personality ever, and im not just saying that cause she dissed me, i was saything that after the 1st time i met her

im pumped now, time to cut my losses

thx bros

one more thing-
im pretty sure this chick will call me back... what should i say to her then? i will probably give her sh1t for it and see what she has to say about it then base my decision off that

1. IL isn't ski high
2. Your under 25
3. She is under 25

Yes to all three? NEXT