I hope one day I can have the perfect game like .. in any game..

not make one mistake when DJing a girl.l

I have made alot of mistakes that are pretty simple but yet still did them and sometimes it cost me.. ***** .. sometimes it just lowered the Attraction level..


MISTAKES I HAVE MADE..

*Leaving my porn out and a girl i was dating saw it..

*Not being aggressive enough with a girl I met at a club .. and got a date.. didint put any moves.. She ignored me..

*Telling a girl .. if she wanted to be Fbuddy

*Braggin alot..

*insulting other girls around a girl.

*Looking at my hands when i was doing kino .. Long long time ago..

*Not going for the "Kiss" with girls that give me good vibes in clubs

*Having a annoying voice.. and not a low voice like that guy in the "MR.VAIN song"

*Writing a "get to know me " note to a girl with everything about me.. So she would get to know me and thinking it would be easier to get her to go out with me.. IS this a mistake?

*being too tacky in my approach

*not knowing how to flirt..



what are your mistakes you have done.. and do you belive in the perfect game..

I agree with the f* buddy and talking crap about other girls in front of her. If she's going to talk crap.. stay neutral...don't go YEAH.. I think she's blah blah blah. Now if she's talking crap about a guy, AGREE with her. (Made this mistake several times.. it gives her an idea.. "So he judges her appearance..I wonder how he judges me" -

F*buddy thing..yep.. If you say "I want you to be my friends with benefits" it tells her that's all she's worth it. SHE makes the decision on if she wants to become that. If you want to be sly..just say.. I like having sexual fun with you.

*Looking at my hands when i was doing kino .. Long long time ago.."


Man, I thought I was the only one who made that mistake. Every thing used to be natural with me no matter if I got the girl or not. When I first began to experiment with kino with this one girl I was beginning to date.

Now, I am back to a natural approach with touching which means that I touch my dates when I feel like it rather than when I think it is time to touch them. In other words, I don't think about it.


Another big mistake I used to make was trying to impress a woman. HUGE mistake. I noticed much more now that when I do not try to impress my dates, they wonder if I like them.
I get asked often enough:

"So what do you think of me?"

"Well, do you like me?"

Not starting sooner

Originally posted by toot86
*Telling a girl .. if she wanted to be Fbuddy

*Braggin alot..

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Wait... you arent supposed to ask a girl directly if she wants to be your Fbuddy!
SamePendo runs to apologize to girl

Bragging. I do a lot of bragging. But I suppose I do it in a funny way. I have fun bragging, so if the chick doesnt like it, too bad!
Here go mine:

*I was at a bus, on a 2/3 hour trip. I got a seat next to a hb 7.5 or more. I started asking questions, newbie djing, nothing wrong. But then I started to ask more, and more. Then she said she wanted to sleep, so she started to sleep. I felt insulted by this and told her "Look, you have 2 options, either you go on and sleep, or you continue talking to me and we can become the greatest lovers, friends, the world has ever known"
Yea, she said she wanted to sleep.
It doesnt end there, After giving her a semi-nasty look, I step down the bus and start to look for the spot my sis was picking me up. After looking around, it turns out she was at the same spot, and we were alone. I apologized and she gave me the ¨its ok...¨speech.
*Hitting on my happily married neighbor when I had just wacked off ( I smelled like ****) I did this more than once.

Like medicine, game is more art than science. We always make mistakes, some mistakes are bigger than others. The key is to eliminate the big mistakes. In life, sh!t happens. Messing with emotional unpredictable women stupid things will happen. I accept it as the cost of doing business.

Without a doubt,
It was not NEXTing sooner. I held onto duds way way way too long. I coulda saved alot more time/hassle/drama had i learned that sooner. that being said, i was still pretty dam good DJ before I hit this site though.