I met an amazing woman and everything clicked. All the DJness flowed freely. My state of mind has been untouchable and I still have the control, the power, and wherewithall to deal with everything that comes my way. Now this woman is head over heals for me and I'll be damed if I don't feel pretty strongly about her myself. I just don't wanna fvck things up and I know a friends opinion of a situation is always better cuz he can see it from the outside.
Asked her if she "wanted to go out sometime", she said yeah, i pulled out my cell phone and got the number, waited a week to call her, set up a date on a sunday with all intention of not giving her my weekends(friday and sat night) until she earned it.
date 1: took her downtown, had some of that asian boba drink, and saw an independant film, opened all doors and was a complete gentleman while at the same time cranking kino up to the max. good EC, threw in some detachment, purposfully ignored a couple questions, great convo w/o revealing too much. kiss closed.
date 2: waited 5 days called. took her to a music festival and saw pharcyde and burning star and some reggae and blues bands, got pictures of our auras done and checked out all the little booths. i threw in c&f when i found out she occasionally smoked ganja and playfully took her into the tents selling smoking accessorys and pot t-shirts. played tennis in the park afterwards. kissing at the net and such.
date 3: waited almost a week, told her i'd pick her up at noon on sunday (cuz i like to sleep after a long saturday night). got our wetsuits, fins, and boards and headed out to santa monica. we bodyboarded for a couple hours and then grabbed a bite to eat before walking along venice beach and checking out shops and wierdos walking on glass and doing the limbo and stuff. took her out on the pier and kept her warm cuz she was cold. great kissing and all that. drove back and were going to play tennis at this college but ended up making out in the car for a long time before i told her we needed to play anyway so i could "clear my mind". taught her how to play better and acted like her coach basically which she was eating up big time. took her home.
So far ive let her pay for my tickets to the music festival and drinks at the conveniance store and have not tryed to buy her. i took the partyboy highground early on so she looks to me as somebody who knows everything about clubbing, drinking games, etc.
Basically what it boils down to is I KNOW she loves me. And I do want her and have been almost perfect so far. Before sosuave I could NEVER have been and would have went AFC in a heartbeat(this chick is a cali surfer gurl HB9 5'11" killer body). The last date was sunday, todays monday. I'm thinking mabye I need to toss some drama into the picture and mix things up a bit. Maybe some ideas on keeping IL high and keep her chasing me even once I feel completely comfortable and confident around her. peace bros~
Asked her if she "wanted to go out sometime", she said yeah, i pulled out my cell phone and got the number, waited a week to call her, set up a date on a sunday with all intention of not giving her my weekends(friday and sat night) until she earned it.
date 1: took her downtown, had some of that asian boba drink, and saw an independant film, opened all doors and was a complete gentleman while at the same time cranking kino up to the max. good EC, threw in some detachment, purposfully ignored a couple questions, great convo w/o revealing too much. kiss closed.
date 2: waited 5 days called. took her to a music festival and saw pharcyde and burning star and some reggae and blues bands, got pictures of our auras done and checked out all the little booths. i threw in c&f when i found out she occasionally smoked ganja and playfully took her into the tents selling smoking accessorys and pot t-shirts. played tennis in the park afterwards. kissing at the net and such.
date 3: waited almost a week, told her i'd pick her up at noon on sunday (cuz i like to sleep after a long saturday night). got our wetsuits, fins, and boards and headed out to santa monica. we bodyboarded for a couple hours and then grabbed a bite to eat before walking along venice beach and checking out shops and wierdos walking on glass and doing the limbo and stuff. took her out on the pier and kept her warm cuz she was cold. great kissing and all that. drove back and were going to play tennis at this college but ended up making out in the car for a long time before i told her we needed to play anyway so i could "clear my mind". taught her how to play better and acted like her coach basically which she was eating up big time. took her home.
So far ive let her pay for my tickets to the music festival and drinks at the conveniance store and have not tryed to buy her. i took the partyboy highground early on so she looks to me as somebody who knows everything about clubbing, drinking games, etc.
Basically what it boils down to is I KNOW she loves me. And I do want her and have been almost perfect so far. Before sosuave I could NEVER have been and would have went AFC in a heartbeat(this chick is a cali surfer gurl HB9 5'11" killer body). The last date was sunday, todays monday. I'm thinking mabye I need to toss some drama into the picture and mix things up a bit. Maybe some ideas on keeping IL high and keep her chasing me even once I feel completely comfortable and confident around her. peace bros~
just continue... maybe a week or two the same way and you can make things a little more personal between you, maybe give her more weekends, work on getting to know her, while still leaving the bulk of who you are a mystery