wow i just wrote a huge thread and lost all of it, so ill make this one short.

hb9 ive been seeing. have other women around but she is my main interest...even see LTR potential. been hanging out for about a month with her IL seemingly high. no romantic stuff though...she just never seem to open up to it. last weekend i knew i couldn't take it anymore so i just kissed her with no opening. she seemed a little weirded out. i decided not to call her...if she liked me that way she would call. well she called the next day. we made out that night and she was totally into it. i even teased her some by pulling back. we worked together tuesday. next time i saw her since that day. i pretty much made her work for any attention. i would walk by her without paying attention to her. one time she say "hey you" and i waved and she smiled. the next time i walked by she told me to come over there. i asked why and said because she said so, jokingly. i said "not good enough" and kept walking. we did talk just a little bit later. as we were all leaving i was in a big conversation with everyone...making everyone, especially her laugh...even though she wasn't really a part of it.

i called her to hang out the next night...but it was late and i forgot she had to get up early for class the next day. the next night she call me at 2 in the morning. i asked if she was drunk since she was calling so late. she said "no...im calling cause i just got out of the party i was at now" . kind of imply that we're talking every night.

tonight i called her while i was hanging out with friends. she said she was going to drink a little at a friends and then go to clubs. she invited me. i said im already drinking with my friends but when you go to the clubs call me. well all the sudden it was 2am and no call. then my phone tells me i have a message. turns out she called back at 11:30...but my phone screwed up and didn't ring. i called and apologized. she said her and her friends are leaving but when they figure out what their gonna do or where their going shell call me. she didn't call back but it was really late and she was drunk...so im not holding that one against her. so basically only seen her that little bit when we worked since we made out.

opinons guys? i would like this to possibly be a LTR in the future, so am i handling myself well? things i should be doing? thanks!

You seem to be doing alright.

Apart from the one missed call (when she was probably smashed), if she's calling you regularly then she is probably keen. Whatever you are doing is working...

I think she may be a good FB candidate. But, why would you want to pursue an LTR with a girl whose life seems to revolve around partying with her friends and getting drunk?

If that is what you are looking for in a girl, then go for it. Otherwise, I would seriously trread with caution with this one.

she doesn't really drink all that much...it just came up in the examples.

UPDATE!
heres an update to my story and a new question

tonight i called her. she was about to go see a movie with some friends she said she would call when it was over. she called and i invited her over. she said she had a lot of homework for tomorrow. i said alright, well ill talk to you later. she new i kind of was ending that abruptly so she said that we'll hang out sometime. i said "promise". she said yep. i said "whatever" kind of jokingly (dont know if she caught that it was jokingly) and said see ya. she didn't say anything and we hung up.

i was a little annoyed cause i have interest in this girl and ive put myself out there by trying but i still haven't really seen her since we kissed a week ago. now ive realized that there has always been a timing issue with things thats why i haven't seen her and she has called me all the time. maybe i just felt like she should be trying even harder. but now i feel kind of bad for how i ended that. what should i do from here? how have i handled myself? could this last conversation actually helped me?...or does she just think im a jerk now? thanks!