Gentlemen.

Everyone here's been putting mad effort into their Djing lately. The old school DJs I know are getting a bit frustrated that this board is turning into a blogwar but as a newbie myself I like the fact that there are so many people out DJing to get their skills up rather than sitting on they fat asses talking about it.

I've been reading posts by guys like M.A.C. and Suavedave who represent (respectively) a DJ and a pimp at the top of their games.

www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=39073

This is some of M.A.C.'s work:
www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=35527&highlight=Field

And some of Dave's :
www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=36192&highlight=yoga+naked

These guys have really inspired me to take my game to the next level.

Now I'm still pretty new to DJing but I did B/C and I've got a pretty good foundation .

My goal is to be as good as these guys , and my plan is this.
I'm gonna set specific goals to improve my DJing over 3 months. Not like a bootcamp just a set level of performance to aim for.

October : 2 New numbers a week and 1 new lay this month.
November : 3 Numbers a week and 2 new lays this month.
December : 3 Numbers a week and 3 new lays this month.

I'm gonna use the board to keep me honest, I don't wanna blog this to death but I'll report how I do each week and what I learn about getting my DJing to that top level.

To the guys out there training right now: Good Luck and Good Hunting.

Try to get each of this girls to give you their autographed bra or panty.

At least just keep track of their names. 5 years from now youll get a great refreshment out of reading about this.

nice schedule....

And you just made me realize something that I has sort of put my DJing at a plateau. And that is organization and a schedule or goals..

I've just been going out and randomly doing things, and it was good at first, but now its leading me to half ass DJing on ladies and laziness overall.

I think I'll use your goals thing for mine. This is a very good idea W.

October Week1

Man this week I have been DJing off my ass!

Not like in Bootcamp where I was forcing myself through it (to keep up thos emassive numbers ) but this week I've been really having a blast , and having objectives to shoot for has meant I've been doing approaches and sh*t where normally I wouldn't be bothered.

Also I can really tell where those b/c skills have sunk in and i'm now doing it naturally.

Anyway I got two numbers this morning.

One was a hot friendava friendava (Solid , nice rack , sexy clothes maybe a 7-and-a-half), who I talked with briefly at uni and then asked her to a comedy gig. Saw her a few times before I left campus which coulda been akward but instead I made a few jokes and it went well.

Second number close was the f***en moneyest sh*t I've pulled in a while.Went to the stationary shop to buy this pen I wanted (hey I have exams coming up , it's a good pen) and there was this hot 8 at the counter. So intead of just dumbly making the purchase I got talking to her about exams and what she wants to study next year and sh*t. Caught a bit of vibe. Next day I go back to the same store and buy some roller ink and she's like making a real conversation outta this (like five minutes , what I don't know about roller ink now ain't worth knowing) I then get to talking about the comedy club I work at and close by asking her to a show. So she takes me up to the counter , gives me her number in front of these three guys working there who were looking on , like "what the hell just happened here?".

Stoked!

Walden,
IL IL IL. Its ALL ABOUT reading IL now. Your like me, in the DJ level of things. You got the first main part of DJ'ing down pat( Basically, becoming a man and approaching girls, number closing, CA's, ect. ect. )

The second main part? Reading IL. The MOST important part. Once you got this down pat, man, your not gonna be stopped. Dude, once you get good, you can read IL in like 20 seconds of convo. Once you can do that, it cuts down on all the wasted time dating and such. Dj'ing, in a whole, basically comes down to 2 areas

1. Who to go for( thats where IL comes in)
2. and how to get what you want (thats were the physical part comes in, the part your quickly becomming really good at)

Good on you for doing this!

What you have to work on is not so much TALKING to the girls. Anyone can do that. You have to concentrate on ATTRACTING the girls. What you will find is that if there is no attraction, there will be just flake numbers.

With attraction, you must work on being C&F, being funny, teasing and building up of sexual tension, stealing the girl's frame etc.

Continued.

Another number today.

Went to uni to see about finding a cute Canadian cetologist I'd met there a whiles back (she's an 8+ for look , intelligent and has good politics so you can see why she was sworth looking up). Unfortunately the ecology lab has been shut down (stink!).

On my way out I see this cuteish grrl sitting alone at a table in the caf.But I walk past (a choke). But my subconscious kept yelling at me that i shouldn't just go past (bootcampers will kno what a reversal that is!). So I sat down , said Hi , told her how I was waiting to meet some guys to rig a debate my class was havng so we;d all get good marks , what was she studying blah blah blah...a friend of hers came up , but I kept with te confident front. I was getting bored so I asked th cute one wether she had a class on Firday and said we should meet up. She said she couldn't so I said "Oh well it was very nice meeting you" I had a feeling she wanted to exchange numbers so I let it hang in the aor for a sec'.She asked for my number and I said (I learned this of some HBs last month) that I have a new phone so i can't rmemeber the number but if I got hers I coulld SMS her.

Got the number and got on my way.

Also teed up a date with Rackgirl from yesterday , for tonight.YNK.

Walden: Setting goals is always good, but this might set you up for disappointment!! I think a better approach is to go out with no expectations, except to start conversations with HB's at every place you go. Analyze what you did right and wrong at the end of it and improve on the next one. If you do this I bet you, that you'll surpass all those goals you listed by quiete a bit.



PIMP

Walden - DJing is a frame of mind! However the lifestyle can only exist if the mind allows it to!

It takes time and ALOT of practice to DJ on the fly. Keep at it and never get your hopes down, girls are girls and eventually it will just click!

I'm sure you have read the field reports done by Drex, that is how easy it can be. You just have to work the basics then go from there.

M.A.C.

continued

Progress thus far.

SMS'd grrl from stationary shop , didn't get a reply (I always expect a certain amount of pastry).

Took the other grrl out to the comedy club. The night went very well. A few times my chump voice tried to tell me not to play , but because I've got set goals to shoot for , my competitive goal seeking instincts kept telling me to get back in there. Kiss closed by getting the convo onto wether she is single , and wether she kisses on first dates.(Saying my grandmother told me not to kiss on first dates cos girls might think I'm easy, and a little later when we were hiome , sitting on my couch , I asked if she thought I was easy then said I was willing to risk my grandmiothers advice and kissed her).

Finished up in bed , again was nervous about going for the f*** close but something told me to go for it so I did.

We got nekkid and fooled around a little, and then fell asleep together .
All in all it hasn't been a bad week

This chick was on the phone and SMSing and asking why I couldn't meet her...blah blah blah all f***ing day.

Dammit why are the easy ones all headcases?

Oh I also got another number today, but it looks like a bit of uphill DJing on that one hey what the hell 'm up for it.

Tried out SMS'ing "So I'll take that as a snub then" to the grl who ignored my last one , again I'm not sweating the pastry, but that one somethimes works.

Okay so it "worked" before I finished typing this. SHe has a boy (or just plain isn't interested) Did I say it was infallible? LOL.
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Update , the boyfriend thing was a flake line and I DJed my way thru that (Man I was stylin') and yes this girl too , is 16. F*** it I'ma hafta start asking for ID! LOL

Okay so,

Firstly that "So I'll take it as a snub" thing worked like a charm , I got one girl from not responding to my messages to making a date with me , and the other got into a long SMS convo with me that she then used to play some headgame on her chump boyfriend who started SMSing me calling me all the arseholes under the sun. Weird!

Today I went to town to an outdoor concert with my gay best friend and her girlfriend , and had a kickass time chasing hot hippie girls with them one really hot 9 (if I gave out 9.5s she'da got one) who turned out to be seventeen (no really this is starting to bother me), and one cute 7 who is a PHD environemntal scientist (am getting sick of dumb girls).
Got a date with Brainsgirl and got dissed by the other one (happens).

Am trying to get Rackgirl on as a playbuddy but she's used to having boys wrapped about her finger and is having a little trouble with the fact that I'm not. I'm kinda experinexting at this stage.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&postid=339464#post339464


Week 2 tomorrow so I reset the clock and start looking for another two numbers.

TTT

October Week 2

This week pretty much bombed for me.

Was studying for final exams all week (thank g*d they're over) so I only got about two hours training in , in that I managed to rock a couple of CA's but neither of them were closes.

I have my girl Bella over for the weekend which will be great , but will also stop me doing any DJing tonight either.

Guess I'll hafta make week 3 a big one!

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Nexted Rackgirl , possibly prematurely but I was stressed from studying and wasn't gonna take any sh*t from skanks that week.

And it turned out tht Brainsgirl only liked me for my intelligence and not my body go figure

October Week 3

2 Numbers today in about an hour; an 8 (hot blonde) and a cute 7+ (gorgeous malaysian girl) that I took on an "instant date" to lunch at a place just off campus.

DJing in college can be like shooting fish in a big wooden thing that holds water some days.

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Visited Rackgirl and ran some game on that a$$, basically running some kino on her , the kissing her goodnight despite us having a long conversation about us being just friends. I figured there was no way it was gonna go if I ran it dirctly , so may as well mix some sh*t up and see where it leads, you never know I might learn something.

continued.

2 PU's today it's my second-to-last week in college so I've been making the most of it.

One was a way cute older chick 25 (28?) who I'd seen around , had a brief convo with in the library yesterday , read an IL but didn't close. Came back to find her today and started a convo , closing by asking her to lunch with me tomorrow.

The other was a cute French girl who was friends with an acquaintance of mine who came to see a show at the comedy club (not to see me , it just happened I was on).
Akward close , cos I didn't get her name but go it written down and don't know how to pronounce it.

Also SprinterGirl came to the show with me, didnt get the chance to walk her to her car as I'da liked cos of having to schmooze a bit after the show. Will SMS and thank her tomorrow for comin'

When I really DJ at 100% I can have mad game , this week I've got 4 numbers so far and been on 3 'dates'.

Phew

Walden,

Keep up all the good work man. Sounds like you're having a lot of success. That's awesome. Keep us informed of future sarging activities.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty

Cheers lefty
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Okay so Librarygirl brought along a ****blocker girl to our lunch "date". My game was pretty money and had them laughing thru lunch , witha serious turn about why she's a vegan (knew she was cool) but really wasn't going anywhere. Bugger it!

Keep getting weird SMSs from HBJailbait trying to drum up a bit of jealous interest in my part (yawn).

Ditto from RAckgirl.

Frankly I got a bit discouraged today, the problem with the shotgun approach is that sure you get that 1 in 10 , but you still hafta take the 9 rejections on the chin to get there.

I'm sorry, your goals for numbers are good, but in general... I would say it's not good to set shagging as a goal. The reason being that you'll be nearing the end, and you'll need two shags this weekend, and you'll just go for the dirtiest ho around.... you won't have earned anything in skill at picking up chicks, you'll take the easy way out so to speak...

A friend of mine did the same thing this past weekend... man that was one fugly ho he went home with, but his goal was the ONS... I'd personnally rather just wack it then to wake up next to some raunchy girl. I mean, not do diss the ONS either, because ONS's are fine, but just as long as your not settling for the first thing that'll suck any d!ck.

But, keep up the good work...

continued

Yeah cheers SPIS, I think there is that danger , but at the moment I'm enjoying the fact that these goals have madly improved my motivation and performance.
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The french girl was pastry.

Still getting weird SMSs from HBJailbait.

Summergirl flaked on me for the second time running so I SMSed her to say that if she didn't want to go out with me she just had to say , and that I "normally" ditch girls after they flake on me but I was malking an exception cos I thought she was "sweet".
Again reading a low IL and experimenting. She SMSed me back saying she was single and did like me , but sending abbreviated text messages is a sh*t way to communicate so I bagged that in favour of calling her in aday or two
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Lay Report:

Rackgirl had been SMSing me all day and I invited her over to watch a film ("Swingers" as it turned out ).

She's a real gamesgirl.

We went back to my room to play , and she told me she was going to leave "soon" cos she didn't like "just jumping into bed with people". So I rolled over and smiled and said , aren't you going then? and gestured to the door. She said "I've never been with a guy like you" and looked kinda puzzled.

So I asked her what she was scared of and she couldn't say anything specific, we kissed a bit more and I started fondling her pusyy outside her pants the inside them and the rest is history.

She came twice , which I don't usually get happening till I've been going out with a chick for ages , and often I don't ever get that.

Well happy.